as always giving out the best advice. I am suprised you don't charge for that kind of knowledge!
The Best Way to get over her???
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as always giving out the best advice. I am suprised you don't charge for that kind of knowledge!
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BackCountryBabe
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Sorry to hear about your break up.
Lots and Lots Time Snowmobile Kid
Start doing foolish and crazy stuff. Find yourself if you feel you need a change in life. Pick up a new hobby. Get a degree. Oh and the best part. Look at all the money you are saving Dude. Being young and having money is the *bomb.* Cummins parts aren't cheap. Nor are sledding mods. Start spending the money on yourself. Make yourself HAPPY! You are #1 Not some X-GF
If its one thing a chick can give you advise on. Once you find the next best thing .. you are going to be broke again. The older you get the more expensive the opposite sex gets.
Lots and Lots Time Snowmobile Kid
Start doing foolish and crazy stuff. Find yourself if you feel you need a change in life. Pick up a new hobby. Get a degree. Oh and the best part. Look at all the money you are saving Dude. Being young and having money is the *bomb.* Cummins parts aren't cheap. Nor are sledding mods. Start spending the money on yourself. Make yourself HAPPY! You are #1 Not some X-GF
If its one thing a chick can give you advise on. Once you find the next best thing .. you are going to be broke again.
The older you get the more expensive the opposite sex gets.Wow that sucks but better now than after a couple kids.Give me a call sometime, did you ever get the cat running?
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Snowmobile Kid
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SO how long until she comes crawling back?......
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bailer
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Here ya go, your choice, my experience.
I was your age and hung up on how great she was, she did come back, we continued dating for 7 years, married for 5, then she left after ending up with my "friend" one night. I was still stupid enough to try and get her to come back to the marriage.
Long story short, that was 10 years ago, of which I've sat around reflecting on what I did wrong etc etc, meanwhile passing on all my chances to move on.
Best advice would be to not repeat all my mistakes. I'm laughing as I realize how time flies by, no wife, no family, lots of toys like you but that's not what matters. You should really learn to turn the page.
I was your age and hung up on how great she was, she did come back, we continued dating for 7 years, married for 5, then she left after ending up with my "friend" one night. I was still stupid enough to try and get her to come back to the marriage.
Long story short, that was 10 years ago, of which I've sat around reflecting on what I did wrong etc etc, meanwhile passing on all my chances to move on.
Best advice would be to not repeat all my mistakes. I'm laughing as I realize how time flies by, no wife, no family, lots of toys like you but that's not what matters. You should really learn to turn the page.
life is to short to be miserable... get with her best friend, dog her out GREEK STYLE, come on her back and break up with her on your way out the door... revenge sex is da bomb!!!! then go bang as much quif as you can for the next year or two... don't get tied down, have fun, make YOU the number one priority... you're young, live whlie you can, once you get married with kids, well, its pretty much over (not in a bad way, just no strange any more, and no money, and no time)...
then go bang as much quif as you can for the next year or two... don't get tied down, have fun, make YOU the number one priority... you're young, live whlie you can, once you get married with kids, well, its pretty much over (not in a bad way, just no strange any more, and no money, and no time)...
She is a hottie, but from the sounds of it she has some issues. Your best bet is to stop contact with her. There is no chance of the two of you getting back together so do your best to heal and move on. Giving her a shoulder to cry on is noble and makes her feel better because that is what she wants. For you on the other hand, it just creates more pain and sadness.
Don't run out and start "tagging" all the free tail you can find, while fun, in the end it won't cure your problem. Only time will. Just hang out with your pals, go riding, find a project sled and keep yourself occupied.
Whatever you do, stop making yourself available to her, you are just hurting yourself. That is my 2 cents. I wish you good luck.
Don't run out and start "tagging" all the free tail you can find, while fun, in the end it won't cure your problem. Only time will. Just hang out with your pals, go riding, find a project sled and keep yourself occupied.
Whatever you do, stop making yourself available to her, you are just hurting yourself. That is my 2 cents. I wish you good luck.
Hey Kid. Sorry to hear about your breakup. Your best bet is to be her friend but that's it. Make a little distance between you and her or you'll never find another girl friend. I think if you look back through the relationship, there were lots of naggy little things that you chose to ignore concerning the long term aspects of the relationship. No one want to lose the pretty girl. SHe has her priorities and you have yours. WHen you find the right one, you'll find that you're magically on the same page. I think the new age of texting makes it tooo easy for people to break up. Not saying that you received a text but I know of alot of young guys who not only receive but send these life altering decisions via text. THere is an insulating factor when you don't have to face the person down. Don't ignore her (it's the first 2 syllables of the word "ignorant") but don't jump when she calls. IF her life changes and you get back together, know it was her coming back and not you wanting her back. THat'll make it a whole lot easier on you in the long run. If it's over, get yourself another girlfriend.
And how is your love life going these days?
Not great, but trust me, getting back at ex-girlfriends is something I'm truly a master of
It's sounds cliche'... but you have to KNOW what you want. It can be ANYONE but your last girlfriend. Accept the fact that the next women will be better in some ways. And then find someone who wants the same thing. She didn't so whats the point?
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Snowmobile Kid
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You make a great pioint, I overlooked alot thinking about the long run relationship.....and yes sadly I think the hardest part is how good looking she was, thats all I really think about, and of course the good times we had.
And once again you were right.....she broke it off over a text, how can someone take it seriously when youve been through so much together and then to recieve a F'ING text to break it off.
What is this Oprah or Dr. Phil come on she looks like she was a potential meat bomb waiting to go off in the next year or so anyways.Move on she is floating someone elses boat.
You're 20 years old. You've got a bichin boat. Don't get caught up on some chick man. Take that sled out all winter and enjoy life while you're young. When summertime rolls around, pull the cover off the boat, and go get some panties wet. Always amazes me when 15-20 year olds think it's the end of the world cuz a girl left them. Grow a pair, get back in the game, and have the time of your life dood. YOURE A FREE MAN NOW!!!
O to be 20 years old again and chasing tail all day.
O to be 20 years old again and chasing tail all day.
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snobunny21
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Very well said...I listen to this sh!t just about everyday with this guy I work with. 21 years old only dated the girl for 5-6 months and damn its the end of the world....HELLO plenty of other fish in the sea that are worth your time and who will treat you better. Thru a text? Thats just fawking pathetic on her part.
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What's her mom look like? Seriously, you always look at there mom to get an idea of what she will look like in 20, 30 years. Looking at the pictures you posted she has the body type of after the first kid those hips and rear will get big. You have to look at the scientific, biological side of things. Young woman look good for a reason (unless they are really fat), that is to find a mate.
Move on, find something better.
One more thing, if her mom looks good, go nail her.
..Yeah I've def ended a relationship or two through text message saying "It's not you, its me, still friends?" screw that crying girl stuff, I'm sure she was probably thinking "screw that crying guy stuff" when she shot you the f-bomb text
You'll be fine... it only gets better from here, you'll wake up one day and laugh at yourself for feeling how you did for the time that you did....
"Good things fall apart, so that better things can fall together."
What's her mom look like? Seriously, you always look at there mom to get an idea of what she will look like in 20, 30 years. Looking at the pictures you posted she has the body type of after the first kid those hips and rear will get big. You have to look at the scientific, biological side of things. Young woman look good for a reason (unless they are really fat), that is to find a mate.
Move on, find something better.
One more thing, if her mom looks good, go nail her.
I don't usually agree with Jake but on this point i do. She does have the figure of a girl that has a good chance of getting hefty. I will give it to you that she looks good now but i had a girl friend that had a figure like that maybe even a bit smaller and now she is pretty big.
I here dat. My ex-w was waaaay outta my league in the hotness dept. (In fact she ended up just recently on the "Bikini and Beer" thread on another website...yup, still hot) But I'll tell ya....a couple of good drunks....trolled home a few catch and releases....then about a year of hanging with the boys and only doing what I want to do and I don't even remember her maiden name....seriously.....I'd have to go look it up on the divorce papers. Get on with life. Don't contact her. Don't answer when she contacts you....just makes you look weak.
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DO NOT GET HUNG UP ON HER LOOKS!!!!! Dude, maybe you just need someone to come out and say it. Altho good looking , Model status she is not. There are so many good looking girls out there. Do not think she is the best looking girl there is because she is NOT. it never helps to hear that your ex is hot. Get on with it and Know that you will find a girl that is better in every way cuz they are out there and closer then you probly think!
