what? but Kala, you broke up with me via text...
I just cant stop thinking about you... give me one more chance, i can make it work! we were made for each other... i will do anything you want me too...
Snowmobile Kid:
Did you see how pathetic that ^^^ sounds? Thats you right now.
You scored your ex, that means you can score another hottie easy. Its all perspective. Dont get down on yourself. You did nothing wrong.
There isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about my ex, but i dont let it stop me from living my life or dating other girls. For a long time i did. She wasted 4 years of my life, I hope this girl doesnt waste your life like that. Here is some advice I gave my brother a few months ago after his fiance left him... its long but works (trust me):
1-[FONT="] [/FONT]Start eating healthy. Really take note of what you are eating. Try to stay away from sugars, alcohol, smokes, and other bad stuff. Make sure you are getting 3 good meals a day. Lots of veggies and fruits as well as whole grains. Your mind and body are in shock right now from a traumatic experience. Eating healthy will help to give them strength to recover. With the start of a new year, set some goals to make sure you get proper nutrition.
2-[FONT="] [/FONT]Start exercising daily. Exercise will help your body produce endorphins that make you feel good. It will cleanse your system of negativity and unspent feelings. As you get into better shape it will help bring back some of that confidence you so desperately need at this point. This is my favorite thing to do now when I get stressed. Whether I hit the gym or get out hiking, it makes me feel better. In a few weeks you will be looking so good girls wont be able to keep their hands off you! (trust me on that one
3-[FONT="] [/FONT]Switch things up. Get some new clothes. Take a chance on a new look and feel. Get your haircut or restyled. Some new threads will help you feel like a new man. It will attractive positive attention and bring positive reinforcement to your life. Every guy has some good girl friends who would love to dress you up. Getting new threads will make you feel like confident and sexy.
4-[FONT="] [/FONT]Get up and get out! You will undoubtedly find that sleeping becomes a problem. Try to avoid spending time not sleeping. When it comes 11 pm try to settle down and get some sleep. Start reading books to help your mind release and focus on something else. For a long time I had dreams every night that she would come back to me. These were particularly hurtful and painful. I started to avoid sleeping because I didn’t want to see her in my dreams, only to wake up to find her gone again. For just over a year I was operating on 3 hours of sleep a night. It was insane. I don’t recommend that at all. Try to find ways to settle down at night and unwind. This includes thoughtful meditation. On the flip side when you are up, get up. Don’t lay there and think about things. Don’t sit around with nothing to do. Don’t moap around the house saying poor me, my life sux, etc. just don’t do those things (yes you have a choice). There is so much in this world to do! You have so many opportunities! Pick up some new hobbies. Learn some new skills. Do some things you never thought you would like. Go fishing, rock climbing, float the river, hiking, biking, swimming, running, caving. Just get moving and get out! Sitting around saying I don’t feel like it (and there were many days I didn’t feel like it) is the worst thing you can do.
5-[FONT="] [/FONT]Service: I know you think your life is in the gutter and can never be fixed. But if you look around carefully you will see that so many people have it way worse! Your challenge is to step outside of your box and serve them. Losing yourself in the service of others will help you forget your own problems and bring you some smiles and happiness. These are easy things to do, helping people is an opportunity that abounds every where you look. Smiling at people, being friendly. Just be on the look out for opportunities to serve. Don’t limit yourself on who you help either. Just dive in and do it.
