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OMFG!! WHAT DO I DO?? got a text by mistake i think..

YUP.. gave him the info.. he dont take no sh!t.. he told her to get the fawk out even before he got home!! she played stupid: "what the hell are you talking about?"... he told her to hit the bricks and dont come back.. :eek:

to be continued..

Wow, apparently a marriage isnt worth saving? That doesnt speak too highly of him either. You know, you can work through this sort of thing in a marriage.
 
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I have never written about this on a forum before, but I really need advice. I have suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs; phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with ‘the girls’ a lot recently — although when I ask their names, she always says, “just some friends from work, you don’t know them.” I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I usually fall asleep.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just did not want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her finally. Around midnight, I decided to hide in the garage behind my sled so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with ‘the girls.’ When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind my sled, that I noticed a leak in the center shock. Should have the shock rebuilt or replace it with something better? Thanks in advance for any advice!


you just knew this was comin, oldy but a goody.
 
Wow, apparently a marriage isnt worth saving? That doesnt speak too highly of him either. You know, you can work through this sort of thing in a marriage.

NOT for me, i couldn't. How could you still love your woman knowing she wants to be with another man. FAWK THAT~!
 
You did the right thing.

Back in the mid 80s when I worked at this hospital, my ex-sort-of-friend (a redhead), who worked in the same dpt as me, would get these calls from this guy she was boinking who worked upstairs in X-ray. I'd hear her planning specific days they could meet and her end of the steamy conversations. Didn't pay much attention until I'd answer the phone at times and recognized his voice. He used to play for the New York Giants and was this BIG muscly black dude with a very distinctive voice. I thought, "Gee that's strange because he's dating so and so (also a redhead) upstairs who works in X-ray with him and I just heard her say they had just gotten engaged."

hey I'm a red head who works in x-ray:eek: And I'm muscly:eek:
 
Good to know Alaska isn't the only batch of males that think like this :):beer;


We play by the rule of sixes. If she dumps him, you gotta wait 6 months before she's fair game. If he dumps her...6 days to change his mind and it's game on!
 
I have never written about this on a forum before, but I really need advice. I have suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs; phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with ‘the girls’ a lot recently — although when I ask their names, she always says, “just some friends from work, you don’t know them.” I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I usually fall asleep.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just did not want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her finally. Around midnight, I decided to hide in the garage behind my sled so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with ‘the girls.’ When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind my sled, that I noticed a leak in the center shock. Should have the shock rebuilt or replace it with something better? Thanks in advance for any advice!


Now, that was funny!!
 
I agree you did the right thing. Had a cheating girl once. Came to find out some of my buds knew. Pretty hard thing to take, especially when freinds knew. The common reason for no one saying anything is they didn't want to upset me. Found out from a business associate. Thank god I found out before the wedding that was a few months away! She was out within 24 hours.
 
When I found out about my wife, it was,
"OK, we're married so you're going to get something out of me. You know I'm not rich, so here's the deal. I already hired a lawyer....you'll be hearing from him. I've got 5k cash that you can take and leave after signing the separation papers....or I can give that to the lawyer too and you can take what you legally deserve".

She signed and took the 5k and I've never seen nor heard from her since. (BTW a proper separation agreement IS the divorce....all set out. After 1 yr of separation the divorce is dunzo without even having to find the dirty tw@t again.
 
She was'nt just joking with you was she?If so you just ruined her marriage, if not telling him was the right thing to do. Even though we do not know who or where ,would your very good friend approve of you bringing this up on snowest/ even with out the detail? You asked what you should do, what you did was tell a bunch of people about some one elses troubles that really had no buisness knowing about it in the first place. i know you probably did not intend it this way. But it how it turned out. In my book you should have done just what you did except for talking about it on a forum.
 
Wow, apparently a marriage isnt worth saving? That doesnt speak too highly of him either. You know, you can work through this sort of thing in a marriage.

I'll take a guess and say that this never happened to you.
When my ex-wife left me I was devastated. Period...
I wracked my brain trying to figure out just what I had done that caused her to walk out on 15 years of marriage and three children.
I lost all pride in myself and resorted to begging her to reconsider what she was doing to our lives and our family.

Then I found out why she left...Cheatin' Bit(h.


After that little revelation I found it very easy to move on and never look back and while I felt bad for our children I knew life with her was not an option for me. I would never be able to look at her again knowing she chose another man over me.
Eventually, she realized what she had done and came back to me one night, begging to talk and work things out.

I was dating another gal by then and her and I married about a year later.
We've been married for over 15 years now and the ex lives in a rat hole of a house with a real douche bag of a guy with a couple more kids from a different guy she hasn't seen in over 10 years.

Karma's a bit(h.

Could I ever forgive her for cheating on me?......Hell no. Rot in hell woman.

Any guy with any pride would not be able to do it. It would eat at you every day until the relationship died anyways because of it.
 
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I'll take a guess and say that this never happened to you.
When my ex-wife left me I was devastated. Period...
I wracked my brain trying to figure out just what I had done that caused her to walk out on 15 years of marriage and three children.
I lost all pride in myself and resorted to begging her to reconsider what she was doing to our lives and our family.

Then I found out why she left...Cheatin' Bit(h.


After that little revelation I found it very easy to move on and never look back and while I felt bad for our children I knew life with her was not an option for me. I would never be able to look at her again knowing she chose another man over me.
Eventually, she realized what she had done and came back to me one night, begging to talk and work things out.

I was dating another gal by then and her and I married about a year later.
We've been married for over 15 years now and the ex lives in a rat hole of a house with a real douche bag of a guy with a couple more kids from a different guy she hasn't seen in over 10 years.

Karma's a bit(h.

Could I ever forgive her for cheating on me?......Hell no. Rot in hell woman.

Any guy with any pride would not be able to do it. It would eat at you every day until the relationship died anyways because of it.



X2 :beer;
 
You did the right thing, I had to find out on my own with my ex. A lil' computer experience and common sence helped out with that ;).

Three things I don't put up with:

CHEATING-we are done, over and out of my life!!!
Lying and Stealing.....This sometimes can be corrected, but I don't like it and won't put up with it.
 
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