OMFG!! WHAT DO I DO?? got a text by mistake i think..

[Killerk]

I have never written about this on a forum before, but I really need advice. I have suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs; phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with ‘the girls’ a lot recently — although when I ask their names, she always says, “just some friends from work, you don’t know them.” I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I usually fall asleep.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just did not want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her finally. Around midnight, I decided to hide in the garage behind my sled so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with ‘the girls.’ When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind my sled, that I noticed a leak in the center shock. Should have the shock rebuilt or replace it with something better? Thanks in advance for any advice!

Repost... It used to be funny

 

[Spud]

YUP.. gave him the info.. he dont take no sh!t.. he told her to get the fawk out even before he got home!! she played stupid: "what the hell are you talking about?"... he told her to hit the bricks and dont come back..

to be continued..

haven't heard from ya on this one jesse, u helpin her move out?

 

[jaysonfreerider]

I have never written about this on a forum before, but I really need advice. I have suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs; phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with ‘the girls’ a lot recently — although when I ask their names, she always says, “just some friends from work, you don’t know them.” I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I usually fall asleep.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just did not want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her finally. Around midnight, I decided to hide in the garage behind my sled so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with ‘the girls.’ When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind my sled, that I noticed a leak in the center shock. Should have the shock rebuilt or replace it with something better? Thanks in advance for any advice!

Sorry to hear about that, but damn!, that just made my day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LMAO

 

[TurboGuy800]

you didnt snoop she screewed the pooch, tell you friend even if he is just an acquaintence, he needs to know to let him find out may take a year or ten, be a man it will be hard for all parties involved but do the RIGHT thing here. maybe she was sending it to him me and my girl are 3,000 miles apart and i always tell her to come over for a movie, jsut joking but you need to tell him, plus it gets it off your chest, not your weight to bear anymore

 

[Scott]

BTW, with some of you on here, your suggestions (hopefully they were a joke and you wouldn't really act like that) there are some who need a SERIOUS ethics check. LOL

SHE is the one who F'd up. You may have saved your buddy a lot worse trouble down the road.

 

[Abominab1e]

BTW, with some of you on here, your suggestions (hopefully they were a joke and you wouldn't really act like that) there are some who need a SERIOUS ethics check. LOL

SHE is the one who F'd up. You may have saved your buddy a lot worse trouble down the road.

Are you referring to "piitb"? lol

 

[AmericanOutlaw]

I sent my buddy a text once asking if he wanted me to stop by for a drink.I didn't know his girlfriend had his phone.Since she didn't know my number she asked who I was.Thinking he was just being stupid I said it's your girlfriend who else would I be?Not a second later my phone rang and her friend from work was asking me who I was.I told her you called me you should know!After a bit of stupid conversation his girlfriend finally got on the phone and demanded to know who I was.I told her and she chilled out.
Point of my stupid story is that a misunderstanding can cause some huge problems!I almost got him broke up with his girl and he didn't even know.

I would have forwarded the text to his phone and let that be the end of my involvement.Leave the PI work up to him.

 

[bobback]

Was she hitting on you?

 

[SLEDIOT]

I sent my buddy a text once asking if he wanted me to stop by for a drink.I didn't know his girlfriend had his phone.Since she didn't know my number she asked who I was.Thinking he was just being stupid I said it's your girlfriend who else would I be?Not a second later my phone rang and her friend from work was asking me who I was.I told her you called me you should know!After a bit of stupid conversation his girlfriend finally got on the phone and demanded to know who I was.I told her and she chilled out.
Point of my stupid story is that a misunderstanding can cause some huge problems!I almost got him broke up with his girl and he didn't even know.

I would have forwarded the text to his phone and let that be the end of my involvement.Leave the PI work up to him.

Now that there is the right answer!!!!!

 

[Himark]

updates?

 

[TurboGuy800]

yeah for sure wtf i want to know more

 

[Spud]

Yeah, Whasup Jesse? wtf happened?
Inquiring minds wanna know...lol!

 

[av8er]

Be careful had truck smashed by crazy b!tch lover

I TOLD A BUDDY ABOUT A DEAL LIKE THAT AND THIS GIRL HAD HER LOVER COME SMASH MY TRUCK WITH A BASEBALL BAT . iF I WOULD OF CAUGHT HIM HE WOULD NOT HAVE MADE IT OUT ALIVE

 

[oonighttrain]

looooooooooong story short:

he got all pissed off when he got home (was drunk) threw some stuff, broke stuff, she got scared, called the cops... i had to go get him at his house (cops out front, unknown to me until i rolled up).. good thing i wasnt drinkning all nite ...

he told her to get the fawk out.. she somehow squirmed her way out saying she was totally plastered etc..etc..

bottom line: they are still together, in the same house.. i still talk to him, havent seen or heard from her but, im sure its gonna be a it uncomfortable when i do, which will probably be tomorrow nite.. (having a fish fry at a mutual buds house.. )

 

[DaveB]

Well....the cheatin' ho's seem to be consistently real good in the sack.....so he's got that goin' for him still....not much else....

 

[Hulkamania]

I really cant believe alot of the guys that are saying they wouldnt do anything about it. Man if my best friend kept something like that from me, what kind of a friend is that? Sometimes the TRUTH hurts, but at LEAST ITS THE TRUTH and not a lie. Who wants to live a lie? Theres no reward in that. I wouldnt want to tell my best friend either but that is the right thing to do.

 

[KFD070]

Delete, delete, delete, delete!!!!

 

[trackvs2wheels]

I'll take a guess and say that this never happened to you.
When my ex-wife left me I was devastated. Period...
I wracked my brain trying to figure out just what I had done that caused her to walk out on 15 years of marriage and three children.
I lost all pride in myself and resorted to begging her to reconsider what she was doing to our lives and our family.

Then I found out why she left...Cheatin' Bit(h.


After that little revelation I found it very easy to move on and never look back and while I felt bad for our children I knew life with her was not an option for me. I would never be able to look at her again knowing she chose another man over me.
Eventually, she realized what she had done and came back to me one night, begging to talk and work things out.

I was dating another gal by then and her and I married about a year later.
We've been married for over 15 years now and the ex lives in a rat hole of a house with a real douche bag of a guy with a couple more kids from a different guy she hasn't seen in over 10 years.

Karma's a bit(h.

Could I ever forgive her for cheating on me?......Hell no. Rot in hell woman.

Any guy with any pride would not be able to do it. It would eat at you every day until the relationship died anyways because of it.

Adrenaline...thank you for your post! Takes a man to admit his ex was stepping out on him! However, I thaink you for the post because I have known too many guys get torn down by what a woman has done to them and never bounce back...you have and I commend you for that

I agree 100% with your karma remark...it comes back to get them one way or another!!

Anyway, thanks again for sharing your thoughts/experiences!!!!!

 

[POLZIN]

Adrenaline...thank you for your post! Takes a man to admit his ex was stepping out on him! However, I thaink you for the post because I have known too many guys get torn down by what a woman has done to them and never bounce back...you have and I commend you for that

I agree 100% with your karma remark...it comes back to get them one way or another!!

Anyway, thanks again for sharing your thoughts/experiences!!!!!

X 2 I am going through the divorce part right now ,butI know in my heart I gave my best . It hurts so much at times I think I am goint to lose my mind ! I try to keep my chin up and I do believe she will regret it later! She's a selfish child of a woman and my life is better without her in it . My kids already are saying "WTF mom is stupid" (My 7 year old ). I just wish I could take an advance on Karma so she would realize what she threw away!

 

[Blk88GT]

The accepted excuse for anything these days. "I was drunk"

Unreal.