12 more days till my life changes...
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snowman*150*
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Ill like the bills getting payed part but not the never seeing it again part lol
I do automatic deposit. I took control of the bills after finding a $400 void in the checking account and it turned out to be more than several fuel purchases that weren't entered in.
She doesn't like that I just took over but in all honesty, it's one less thing she has to worry about and it gives me something to do at 5am Friday mornings when there is nothing else to do.
Now, back on topic. Do keep her mother on a short, short leash. And nicely have a talk with your Mom. They don't have a say on how you live, what color you paint your house, what car or truck you buy and most CERTAINLY how you raise your kids. If you can keep the mothers at bay, then both of you will lead a happy life. Don't exclude them but don't include them in any decision on your life with your new bride. Don't tell them you are buying a house, tell them you bought one.
Both parties need to fully disclose any debt being brought into the marriage.
If shell let you ride, she's a keeper
If shell let you ride, she's a keeper
Haha. Yup seen that a bunch. It's been 8 yrs in the making for me so I've been doing alot of saving- no payments = no selling my toys.
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snowmobiler
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if you log in to snowest every night,that might start a fight.
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snowman*150*
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Good thing the gets off a little while after I get off so I can for sure have some snowest time!
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snowman*150*
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She actually likes to go riding every once in a while. Except I always push her into doing stuff and then she gets stuck and guess who has to dig her out.... ME lol But you know she actually dose pretty good for really never riding when she was young.
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snowman*150*
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Ugh dont get me started on mothers
Oh...it's always HER mom that is always the problem. LOL
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snowman*150*
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My wife rarely talks to her mother...for many reasons. Just one of the things she has done - at our wedding, she left immediately after the ceremony. No pictures, no reception, just gone. We finally got her to answer the phone two hours later and she was at home taking a nap.
Trust me when I say I seriously dislike my MIL.
Trust me when I say I seriously dislike my MIL.
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snowman*150*
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What really! Dose she not like you or something? That seems very weird to me
Relax and have fun. I just got married last Saturday. Had a blast. The most stressful part is trying to entertain the guests. Even though I had fun I am so glad it is over.
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X2Freeride
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Know who your marrying and know that you CAN tolerate living with that person for the REST of your life!
This may sound strange to some people, but I have way to many friends that got married to women then knew for a very short period of time. One of my best friends got married to a woman that he knew and dated for all of 8 months, they had a kid not long after he getting married that was born premature and spent alot of time in the ICU which put a HUGE financially and stressful strain on their marriage which brought out the worst in both sides...
Now they basically live together as roommates less than 2 years later. My buddy says I guess I didnt know her as well as I thought and Id NEVER get married again. Its a bad thing to say, but I told him when he told me they were getting married, If you think its right you have all my support, but you both just lead to different of life styles I cant see this working for you.
Now this isn't always true, but I dont see how you can know someone for a year or less and know you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. How do you really know what someones is like with out hardly ever having lived with them for any real amount of time? Or having been through any real tough life situations or even day to day situations? Let me be the first to tell you tough times and stressful situations have a tendency to really change what you know about a person, and how that person will act. You need to go in knowing that their are no surprises that are going to come up that you haven't seen or don't expect that are going to change how you feel about her.
Relationships are great when you see each other for short periods of time that are always fun, and then have time to "Miss" that person in between. As others will tell you its a whole different ball game when your together 24/7 365. You've got to think that's why you see so many marriages that fail, because the people just really didnt know each other well enough and rushed into the whole thing way to quickly, or got married because they felt they "HAD" to or that it was the right "TIME"
I asked my old lady to marry me finally after having lived together for 2.5 years dating for 3 and having known her for close to 10. Our wedding date is set for 3 years from now. We went through some pretty rought times the first year we were together, which put a ton of strain on us, but we made it through and only grew stronger and closer together. I know that we have been through every test that life can through at us, and at this point I actually can not imagine what my life would be like without her sharing it with me.
To me that's how you know that you should be getting married if you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that your life would be worse without her, then you guys are going to be happy together for a long long time! Good Luck!
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Thats a really long engagement dont you think?
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