12 more days till my life changes...
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Another thing to remember that by I guess "natural selection" the man is the head of the family and therefore you always get the last word, just make sure you realize that most of the time your last word will be, "Yes Dear!!"
Yes the man is the "Head of the Household" but the woman is the "Neck".
haha - I have 5 days left before my wallet is locked down
I saw this coming a year ago and decided to go nuts and buy all the toys and stupid s*** i could afford, because i know a house and kids aren't too far off- so i bought a new truck, snowchecked a 2012 AC, and bought a new rzr....
As far as advice- i'll get back to you in 6 days
congrats
Oh great now were going to see adds in a few months, Must sell baby on the way.Needs to go buying house> HaHaHa good luck
Crap, I just sold a set of Alpinestar Tech 8's to buy a stroller.....
You may think it gets better, but in actuality it gets way way way way way worse.
Watch this vid, ignore the first minute. Warning, not good for kids, it is from a TV show (Tosh.0).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtoQH0TZprI
Watch this vid, ignore the first minute. Warning, not good for kids, it is from a TV show (Tosh.0).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtoQH0TZprI
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snowman*150*
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Hopefully mine is great the whole time. Ill keep ya posted threw out the years to come
It'll be ok. Best advice I ever got was ;
Marry the first time for love, the second time for retirement.
(I'm working on the retirement part now)
Marry the first time for love, the second time for retirement.
(I'm working on the retirement part now)
And that right there is where you put the pearl necklace!!
She better not change! Because that defeats the reason why I asked the question in the first place...
You know why they are smiling when they're walking down the aisle? They're thinking to themselves, whew' I'll never have to do "THAT" again!
Good luck.
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You know why they are smiling when they're walking down the aisle? They're thinking to themselves, whew' I'll never have to do "THAT" again!
HAHAAHAH
She better not change! Because that defeats the reason why I asked the question in the first place...
She will. Guaranteed.
And DO NOT get talked into selling your toys! Cause you will play Hell trying to get them back once sold. If she can't deal with you riding, whether it be dirt or snow then you best be calling it off right now because she won't stop singing that song. Every time I wanna go ride, it's a fight. I generally win, but still something that puts me in a bad mood.
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y'all are so "doom and gloom". Glad I'm not married to your wives...they all sound like bitches.
Snowman, As someone else already said: 100% honesty from the very start. Everything from finances to fornication...she better know everything you know. A secret will sink your marriage faster than anything else. Don't just show up at home with a new sled and say "look what I bought!" That's how wives turn into the above examples of nags.
Snowman, As someone else already said: 100% honesty from the very start. Everything from finances to fornication...she better know everything you know. A secret will sink your marriage faster than anything else. Don't just show up at home with a new sled and say "look what I bought!" That's how wives turn into the above examples of nags.
this ^^
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already joined lol. No fights yet
In my 4 years of being married this is the best I have ever seen for advice.
Choose your Love and Love your Choice.....
Now for my bit.
You are joining together, that means you are no longer you and her, it is YOU as in her and you together. No matter what anyone says or does, remember you picked her for reasons that only matter to you. You aren't cuddling your buds in front of a fire, your buds aren't cleaning up puke and chit from the bathroom at 2 am when she gets wicked sick (been there).
Your family and her family aren't living in your house or sharing your lives....you picked her to share your life as her you, nobody else. So while family is nice, you both left yours to create YOURS....as long as you and both families get this things will be good on that front. My parents knew this right away, hers didn't and it led to some wicked fights early on.
When you fight and you will, remember sometimes it is better to walk away and think. Also make sure you guys know how you each fight, we had to learn and that in itself avoided fights within fights. Also no matter how much it seems one person is at fault, well man that is never gonna be the case so no sense talking a big game when it could have been one little thing that caused her to do a bigger thing.
I don't get separate money deals....kinda goes against the whole joining together bit IMO. I know lots of friends who do the his and hers accounts and at least once a week I hear the wife or guy bitch about how the other person is spending the "their" money. Talk with your wife and plan things out and discuss what you want and what she wants vs needs and go from there.
The biggest thing is always talk and in life always remember you picked her, you didn't pick everyone else.
Ohh and you better hurry and get as much of "those" as you can before the big day........
Choose your Love and Love your Choice.....
Now for my bit.
You are joining together, that means you are no longer you and her, it is YOU as in her and you together. No matter what anyone says or does, remember you picked her for reasons that only matter to you. You aren't cuddling your buds in front of a fire, your buds aren't cleaning up puke and chit from the bathroom at 2 am when she gets wicked sick (been there).
Your family and her family aren't living in your house or sharing your lives....you picked her to share your life as her you, nobody else. So while family is nice, you both left yours to create YOURS....as long as you and both families get this things will be good on that front. My parents knew this right away, hers didn't and it led to some wicked fights early on.
When you fight and you will, remember sometimes it is better to walk away and think. Also make sure you guys know how you each fight, we had to learn and that in itself avoided fights within fights. Also no matter how much it seems one person is at fault, well man that is never gonna be the case so no sense talking a big game when it could have been one little thing that caused her to do a bigger thing.
I don't get separate money deals....kinda goes against the whole joining together bit IMO. I know lots of friends who do the his and hers accounts and at least once a week I hear the wife or guy bitch about how the other person is spending the "their" money. Talk with your wife and plan things out and discuss what you want and what she wants vs needs and go from there.
The biggest thing is always talk and in life always remember you picked her, you didn't pick everyone else.
Ohh and you better hurry and get as much of "those" as you can before the big day........
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