Buying a sled is a pretty big commitment for most of us. Few pay $12k nless they have to have the snocheck models that you reserve in spring for the next season. Otherwise, I for example, paid $9500 for a 2013 model with 5 miles on it, brand new, with extras, under 10 grand.
Still, by the time you buy a new sled, maintain a truck and trailer to haul it, buy all the riding gear, buy a second sled for wife, friends, back-up, you will be into the sport for 20g's plus real easy. Those of us that do go in that deep are VERY passionate about the sport. Spending time in the mountains on a sled for me is important and special, not to mention a load of fun with the right sled, gear and some practicing of your riding abilities. It is challenging in a beautiful setting so to me it is worth it, all of it.
I bought a new time bomb to ride. Truth is they all break, Yamahas no so much but a Yamaha is like a toyota landcruiser in the backcountry. The exploding Pro is a Ferrari, light agile, agressive and sometimes fragile. That is the price we pay for our chosen sport
It might not be your thing. I think you don't understand because the bug hasn't really bitten yet. If you are serious about getting into the sport but the top level goods are more than you can stomach, buy a used sled. I would find a $3500 Arctic Cat M7 and then see if you like riding. Go with a group of more experienced riders. Take it in, see if it is your thing.
Do not go back out on an antique like an XLT. That was a great sled... in 1995. Almost 20 years later, not so much. I really do not understand how anyone would really enjoy that experience either.
Coming here and complianing though? Maybe the above helps you understand our affliction.