I have a 2011 ecoboost with 3:73 gears. I have a duramax as well. The ecoboost does not pull like the duramax but there is no doubt this is the most powerful 1/2 ton on the market. The best towing 1/2 on the market by a big margin!
The 5.0 Ford, 5.4 Nissan or the 5.3 Chev are simply no conparison. I have spent thousands of miles in all of these. These engines shift all the time and need rpm's for power. The ecoboost pulls my 14ft Floe effortlessly loaded through the mountains. It rarely shifts below 5th gear or revs above 3500rpm. This is compared to the 4500+ rpm that the 5.0, 5.4 or 5.3 run all the time when loaded (very annoying and tough on mileage).
For most people who occassionaly pull a trailer, this is the best truck out there. If you pull consistently, then a diesel is still the way to go. Mileage is very similar to my duramax (empty and towing) for a fraction of the price.
I would not buy gears taller than 3:73 because of the 6sp transmission. Even with the 3:73 gears, I run at 1800rpm at 60mph, plenty tall enough for me. If I wanted better mileage I would just drive the MDX.