OMFG!! WHAT DO I DO?? got a text by mistake i think..

[oonighttrain]

long story short:

supposed to go on a weekend trip with a buddy and his wife in a couple weeks.. she was supposed to see if she could get the time off of work. i was supposed to get an answer from her a week and a half ago.. couldnt get an answer from him (hes out of town right now for work).. i text her at about 1pm today asking if she got the time off.. no response until 10pm tonite saying "my day was great, where are you baby, can you come see me?"... holy chat, what do i do, its clearly not meant to be a text to me.. im sure its supposed to be to someone else.. but, obviously not him as hes out of state..

 

[Vertical_Escape]

How good of buddy is he ?



Seriously, I wouldn't want your predicament .....

 

[Bkinz]

Sound like your in a bit of a pickle. huh? I definitely would mess around with her if you want your friend. Are they married or just dating?

 

[icr]

tell him, that's what friends are for

 

[Nikolai]

Drive to her house and show her the text in person

 

[Skinner]

tell him, that's what friends are for

^^^^^X2!!! it will be hard but I would want it that way if it was me.

 

[jsledder]

Respond with... I'm just down the street, I can stop by in a few minutes when I get done with Joe's wife.

 

[MARCUSO]

I would text her back and ask where and when...LOL (JK)

HOw good of a friend are you? I would at least confront her and warn her that what might be happening will destroy the relationship between YOUR friend and HER.
I would probably do what Nikolai said.... but not let her touch the phone.

I bet she realized the text error and you would be just as guilty to sweep it under the mat..

 

[knee deep in it]

myob

he will find out soon enough.

 

[jaysonfreerider]

Lol. man, i would defently text back asking her when and where. like said before.
now that would be funny.
go get'er, shes waiting for you!

 

[framus]

1. Is he a riding buddy and is there a possibility that he may read this here?
2. Is it going to make things worse that you are asking a motley bunch of Snowesters what the f*&K to do?

 

[cmantle1]

sketch dude. If its a good friend i say confront her. If not, i say let them work it out. You dont know him well enough to get in it if thats the case...

good luck.

 

[oonighttrain]

called him on his cell and told him the scoop.. he asked me to drive by, i did.. she had just gotten home (garage lite was still on)..

i feel like a total azzhole now.. its gonna get ugly..

 

[live2ride]

The sad part is you were just trying to help, and you will most likely loose them as friends

 

[rockdog2112]

called him on his cell and told him the scoop.. he asked me to drive by, i did.. she had just gotten home (garage lite was still on)..

i feel like a total azzhole now.. its gonna get ugly..

It's not your job to be his PI. You've already done the right thing. It's his business now. JMO.

 

[DenverR1]

You did the right thing.

 

[Good to Go]

Damn Jess...... ugly mess.

I despise that chit; those that cheat. People get stupid and cause a lot of pain.

 

[Wade]

Have him buy a cheap little GPS tracking device from www.sparkfun.com. You hook it to her car, somewhere she won't look, like the dip stick. Then see where she spends her time.

There's nothing wrong with PI'ing for a good friend, unless your stupid and get caught. Too many dishonest people out there.

 

[xrated]

damn dude that sucks.

now if it was one of your "models" sending the text, different story.

So is the trip cancelled?

 

[woodzy]

You did the right thing Jesse... If the tables were turned you would want to know right?