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So I got this situation and it involves riding buddies.
Been dating this young lady for a bit nothing serious, just getting to know her and it finally has been starting to come around. Here is where my dilema is. One of the guys in my riding group, who is very aware of my feelings for her, Starts calling her to do stuff and has gone so far as not ride with us to go out with her instead of us. Basically this whole week Im sorta kicked to the back burner with her.
So Do I
A: Get pissed at him for breaking the man code and beat his AZZ?
B: Get pissed at him, and her and still beat his AZZ and ignore her for good?
C: Get pissed at her and walk away, letting the buddy off the hook for being a idiot and thinking with the wrong head?
D: Walk away from it all find new riding buds and chalk all the bs from her up to experience?

Any feed back is welcome, especially the funny stuff;)
 
id talk to her, figure out what she would rather want. shes not into you leave it alone, if she is into you tell her to blow off your buddy and hang out with you. If she doesn;t know tell her see ya. as for the buddy.. nothing you can do were all going to chase tail....:rolleyes:
 
Seems a bit short on info but.................. She is as much to blame as he is. Dont isolate the jungement to one or the other, if you were into her and involved then its a pretty piss poor move on his part. Been in a similar situation, blows. Good luck

B sounds about spot on to me
 
Get viagra samples and leave them in his car. Buy "Mothers" magazine and leave it in hers. Tell him that she told you she wants a kid. Tell her that he told you he had man sex. I dunno... too early for funny.

Be pissed off at him and her. Call him out on it and confront her. If you loose either you won't be loosing much.
 
ouch said:
id talk to her, figure out what she would rather want. shes not into you leave it alone, if she is into you tell her to blow off your buddy and hang out with you. If she doesn;t know tell her see ya. as for the buddy.. nothing you can do were all going to chase tail....:rolleyes:
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Tell me you aren't that guy that hits on his buddies girl when he isn't around if so, do us all a favor and kick your own AZZ
SAWYER said:
Beat his a$$. Friends don't do that to each other
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Leaning twards this method for sure Sawyer, plus how can I trust a dude in the back country with my life if I can't even trust him to respect my lady situation!
 
cuzzinolaf said:
get viagra samples and leave them in his car. Buy "mothers" magazine and leave it in hers. Tell him that she told you she wants a kid. Tell her that he told you he had man sex. I dunno... Too early for funny.

Be pissed off at him and her. Call him out on it and confront her. If you loose either you won't be loosing much.
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rotflalmmfao!
 
skidontlover said:
plus how can I trust a dude in the back country with my life if I can't even trust him to respect my lady situation!
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I think that is taking this a little too far. There are always two sides to a story. I'd confront whoever is more important to you and see what they say.
 
skidontlover said:
Maybe a lil but its complete BS haha
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The story or what he is doing? You just trying to get a rise out of us? LOL. Maybe I can hook you up with my girlfriend fat and ugly single friend. She looks like a cross between Sloth from Goonies and Jabba the Hut.
 
If your 'buddy' was a true friend and knew that you liked her & she liked you he should have the respect to not getting involved. That is basic man code:confused: What's her deal? Why is she hanging out with him? Obviously punani is more important to your friend than your friendship with him. Selection: B:beer;
 
CuzzinOlaf said:
The story or what he is doing? You just trying to get a rise out of us? LOL. Maybe I can hook you up with my girlfriend fat and ugly single friend. She looks like a cross between Sloth from Goonies and Jabba the Hut.
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That is BS,
TurboT said:
If your 'buddy' was a true friend and knew that you liked her & she liked you he should have the respect to not getting involved. That is basic man code:confused: What's her deal? Why is she hanging out with him? Obviously punani is more important to your friend than your friendship with him. Selection: B:beer;
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Good to see the Idaho and WY guys still know what it means to repsect your friends!:beer;:beer; To ya
 
GYP M-80 said:
I smell bs
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On what? Dead serious on this one, taken her out atleast 20 times this fall, was some other guys in the picture at first and they sorta all went the way side. Helped this guy tear his motor down prob 2 months ago and talked to him how I felt about her, and his response was she is quite the catch and he was stoked for me. Then bam I show up the other night and who is at her place? Him, who is calling her to hang on Christmas eve? Him Who is calling her on christmas to take her on a ride? Him Who tells us he cant ride a couple of days yet can take her riding instead? Him
You might want to get you BS meter checked cause it is giving you some false readings GYP.;)
 
skidontlover said:
On what? Dead serious on this one, taken her out atleast 20 times this fall, was some other guys in the picture at first and they sorta all went the way side. Helped this guy tear his motor down prob 2 months ago and talked to him how I felt about her, and his response was she is quite the catch and he was stoked for me. Then bam I show up the other night and who is at her place? Him, who is calling her to hang on Christmas eve? Him Who is calling her on christmas to take her on a ride? Him Who tells us he cant ride a couple of days yet can take her riding instead? Him
You might want to get you BS meter checked cause it is giving you some false readings GYP.;)
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NO BS TO YOU!! your so called friend broke some man laws!! ask him about it.. talk to her about it too!! lost a gf like that so its not cool! he lied through his teeth about it.. she just ended it!:rolleyes: he got lippy at the bar like a week later.. and asked me to step outside.. we did.. then one thing led to another and he decidied to punch me... all of a sudden he had no teeth to lie through and I got a ride ome in a black an white car...

no fun man.. hope it works out..

dont chase'em! replace'em!!
 
Sorry to say, but he might be doing a great favor!!
How old is everyone in this scene?
Did you make it with her?? Only a couple/ few times in 20 dates? That is not a good sign. No offense, if she was really into you you would have hit that all the time and you would be together. The chemistry probably just isn't there. Don't blame your buddy too much but there would be nothing wrong with pointing it out to him.
skidontlover said:
On what? Dead serious on this one, taken her out atleast 20 times this fall, was some other guys in the picture at first and they sorta all went the way side. Helped this guy tear his motor down prob 2 months ago and talked to him how I felt about her, and his response was she is quite the catch and he was stoked for me. Then bam I show up the other night and who is at her place? Him, who is calling her to hang on Christmas eve? Him Who is calling her on christmas to take her on a ride? Him Who tells us he cant ride a couple of days yet can take her riding instead? Him
You might want to get you BS meter checked cause it is giving you some false readings GYP.;)
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Here is what really set this all off this AM. Woke up tried getting ahold of all the peips we ride with, nothing left some msgs, Called her to see if she wanted to go to breakfast to ask her about it nothing. Well Loaned some tools to a friend that rides with us and he stopped by to return them earlier. This is where it gets good, turns out they were all goriding and the reason I couldnt get ahold of them is they were all at breakfast and the dude tells everyone to not answer my calls cause the lady is coming with him and he doesn't want any drama. Everyone of the regular crew just went on the **** list for supporting him.
 
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justadude said:
Sorry to say, but he might be doing a great favor!!
How old is everyone in this scene?
Did you make it with her?? Only a couple/ few times in 20 dates? That is not a good sign. No offense, if she was really into you you would have hit that all the time and you would be together. The chemistry probably just isn't there. Don't blame your buddy too much but there would be nothing wrong with pointing it out to him.
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Actually the only reason she would hang with me at first was cause it was low key and low pres. She had just gotten out of a long abusive relationship. So it took some time and we did hook up just last weekend;) So right now she is as much to blame for it as him, everyone is in their mid to late 20s
 
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