So let's get technical....WHERE on the hard drive does I-tunes/I-pod put the music. I can't find a folder with say...280 songs on it. Can't find a folder with a single song on it.
It depends...
If you let iTunes control your library, then the music will be in a My Documents - My Music - iTunes - iTunes Music
If you didn't let iTunes control you library, then it should be in your My Documents - My Music folder, with each artist having it's own folder. Or where every you told iTunes where your music was in the first place.
Does that help? Maybe? lol