The Best Way to get over her???

[Snowmobile Kid]

Long story short my girlfreind and I broke up, It was out of no where and its been really hard, I love her to death and treated her great so its like a slap in the face. Whats the best way to forget about her??

She hurt me pretty bad and I took my ring back and told her I never wanted to see her again and about a week later on new years she called me very upset and wanted to talk so the next day I met up with her but she doesnt want a relationship anymore and wants to be "friends" and thats not helping at all.

 

[Anti-Hero]

freinds with bene's the very best relationship in the world! and more time to sled think of it that way!

 

[Rowboat]

I feel ya man. It's hard, shoot it took me almost a year to get over my last...

I just spent alot of time in the garage workin on toys, spending money on myself (kinda nice to have that extra dough), and spending a lot of lost time with the bros.

And I found my long lost friend, bud light...

Disclaimer: I don't condone the use of alcohol to get over stuff.
Disclaimer Disclaimer: But it sure helps.

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

Ive been spending most of my time with friends, going out to the bars since I never went out when I was with her, the alcohol helps ease the pain, I also took up smoking and some other stuff..........

It wasnt a typical relationship and thats why its so hard, from the time we first hung out we spent EVERY night together, got along better than two best friends, after 4 months we got a place together

 

[Rowboat]

Ive been spending most of my time with friends, going out to the bars since I never went out when I was with her, the alcohol helps ease the pain, I also took up smoking and some other stuff..........

It wasnt a typical relationship and thats why its so hard, from the time we first hung out we spent EVERY night together, got along better than two best friends, after 4 months we got a place together

That sounds pretty close to my old situation...

Were together for 3-4 months before I left for the Marines... find out while I'm gone she cheated on me, forgave her. Come home and get woken up in the middle of the night to her new bf pounding on the door.... that was an eye opener...

Such is life...

 

[badapple]

Time, time and more time. I think we all have had some heart break at some point in our lives. Unfortunately the only remedy for what your feeling is time.
Drinking /smoking etc.. will dull the pain but it'll still be there when the liquor wears off. The friend status usually just helps the girl get over you quicker. Dont do her any favors by being friends. You can be friends once you have healed. Hanging w/bud and keeping busy. Let me say that again STAY BUSY. If your mind is busy w/other things it wont have time to think about her!!
Oh and one more thing...your only 21 so you may go through this many times in your life. Good news...it gets easier w/every one.

 

[hilinerider]

smokin doesn't help ridin shape but gettin back in the saddle helps get over it

 

[snowbunny chaser]

When you see her in a few years and she has packed on about 50 LBS, then you will be over her and laugh that you dodged that chubby little bullet. Thats what helped me with my old HighSchool sweetheart. It just makes me laugh knowing that she was getting boned by my good friend (at the time) and now shes FAT! LOL!!!!

 

[RMKillR]

get with her best friend, or sister.

 

[XXL]

Best way to get over a woman is to get under another one. There were a couple I lost that I thought I would not get over. They don't hold a candle to the one I have now for the last 26 yrs. Don't grab the next one that comes along on the "rebound" thing. Well for a little while maybe!!

 

[snowbunny chaser]

As the old Cliche saying goes, theres always more fish in the sea. I had a tough time with my highschool girlfriend after we broke up. I lost about 1/4 of my body wieght and missed out on alot of school.
When i left for the military i went to japan and found me a hot little asian chick that is now my wife. Love her to death but just like any other girl, sometimes you just want to set them on FIRE! I kid "kinda" ! Just think, out of the billions of girls out there it's not likely that you had the best of them. there are still plenty of good ones out there.

 

[Abominable]

do like this guy:

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[94fordguy]

do like this guy:

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WOW!!!!!


That was funny as **** but definitely not appropriatte!

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

Thanks for all the advice guys, Il be the first to admitt that she has me wrapped around her finger and im there for her as soon as she calls even after what she did. And I know thats bad but il find any reason I can to see her and I need to STOP.

I know if I meet another girl that will help tons but im having trouble finding any other girl actractive right now ( I know that sounds gay)

Heres a pic of her on my truck and another by it.....

Oh and another question, What if I want to get her back?? ( even though shes the one whoe wants to leave)

 

[94fordguy]

Thanks for all the advice guys, Il be the first to admitt that she has me wrapped around her finger and im there for her as soon as she calls even after what she did. And I know thats bad but il find any reason I can to see her and I need to STOP.

I know if I meet another girl that will help tons but im having trouble finding any other girl actractive right now ( I know that sounds gay)

Heres a pic of her on my truck and another by it.....

Oh and another question, What if I want to get her back?? ( even though shes the one whoe wants to leave)

Wow, by the looks of those pics, you have good reason to be sick to your stomach of her leaving.... I hope it all works out in the end... for whatever that may be.

 

[Rowboat]

Give me that truck and I'll be your little honey.

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

Wow, by the looks of those pics, you have good reason to be sick to your stomach of her leaving.... I hope it all works out in the end... for whatever that may be.

Ha ya I know right, 10 peircings, 2 tattos, 1 amazing smile, and an endless number of great memories

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

Give me that truck and I'll be your little honey.

No shes my real baby, she'll never leave me. I bought that truck when I was 19, bought the matching boat with my hard earned money right out of hugh school.

 

[Rowboat]

Geez, let me in on whatever your doing.

 

[RMKillR]

no chit, whats your side hustle?