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OK here's the question...

I have a commy pinko Obama voting, anti-republican sister that likes to bring her kids up to the cabin and ride ATV's. Now I have to admit, it was the family cabin until I inherited when my father died...and he actually bought the ATV's, but I have been maintaining and fixing them all this time. She has been relatively poor at contributing financially to the property...but she cooks and takes pretty good care of me when she visits. I get along fine with her...but damn do I have an ethics problem letting her ride when she so oblivious to public access issues. How do you vote? Let her ride? or veto her ***?
 
ummm... who cares? she has her own way of doing thing so let her do her thing. well if you need money id just ask her, i dont know of one family where any family member wouldent help another
 
MMMMMM??

Do you really want to be that guy??
Who does that to his own flesh and blood?? She isn't physically hurting you with her position. She treats you well, but simply disagrees with you on some or maybe many things. So what, be a grown up and let her have her opinion and thoughts!! Be gracious, love your sister and her kids. Remind her gently when appropriate of the realities of access and use of motorized vehicles. This thoughtful approach is your best bet at getting her understanding.
She may never become a republican, but that doesn't mean she is incapable of changer her mind on access, wilderness and so on.

I'm a percect example.

I'm a access loving, gun rights, hunting SOB Democrat.:eek::confused::eek::confused::rolleyes::beer;
 
It's too bad she's your sister and you have to be nice to her, but clearly she is very ignorant to many of the issues at hand and if you asked her about it she would more than likely give you a blank look, sadly alot of these people have no basis to their argument they just voted for Obama because he's "different" Just another stupid Liberal, there are millions of them:(
 
Oh, sorry I lost track, when it comes to the cabin you sort of have to let her and her kids stay, it's called family whether you like it or not, she's your sister, just smile and say yes
 
bring her kids up to the cabin and ride ATV's

That should answer your question right there.It's all about the next generation.I'm guessing if she can't ride the kids won't either.That would be a shame.That's what the access fight should be about.Allowing the next generation to still enjoy the things we do now.:)
 
MMMMMM??

Do you really want to be that guy??
Who does that to his own flesh and blood?? She isn't physically hurting you with her position. She treats you well, but simply disagrees with you on some or maybe many things. So what, be a grown up and let her have her opinion and thoughts!! Be gracious, love your sister and her kids. Remind her gently when appropriate of the realities of access and use of motorized vehicles. This thoughtful approach is your best bet at getting her understanding.
She may never become a republican, but that doesn't mean she is incapable of changer her mind on access, wilderness and so on.

I'm a percect example.

I'm a access loving, gun rights, hunting SOB Democrat.:eek::confused::eek::confused::rolleyes::beer;

There's an oxymoron...
 
what the heck, I will be different. I say pull the keys. when the little ones start giving you the sobbs and lip, tell them to talk to their mom, after all she does not think we should ride atvs and snowmobiles. if its good enough for yellowstone its good enough for our yard.

that oughta take about 10 minutes to get her eyes opend up. it would be a good chance to get a discussion going with her on choice and rights. let people make their own choice, it's their right. take away either and this country is screwed.
 
what the heck, I will be different. I say pull the keys. when the little ones start giving you the sobbs and lip, tell them to talk to their mom, after all she does not think we should ride atvs and snowmobiles. if its good enough for yellowstone its good enough for our yard.

that oughta take about 10 minutes to get her eyes opend up. it would be a good chance to get a discussion going with her on choice and rights. let people make their own choice, it's their right. take away either and this country is screwed.

yeah-punish those kids for something that they have no control of! that'll show em! are you f*cking serious?
 
what the heck, I will be different. I say pull the keys. when the little ones start giving you the sobbs and lip, tell them to talk to their mom, after all she does not think we should ride atvs and snowmobiles. if its good enough for yellowstone its good enough for our yard.

that oughta take about 10 minutes to get her eyes opend up. it would be a good chance to get a discussion going with her on choice and rights. let people make their own choice, it's their right. take away either and this country is screwed.

I agree. I think allot of the problems in this country are that the majority of people are reasonable straight thinkers but most are willing to walk on eggshells, sidestepping the minority of crazy liberals just to avoid confrontation. Why should we always be the one to compromise, they don't. If the hippie sister inherited the backwoods cabin, do you think she would let anyone, including brother to come ride a sled or quad? Heck no, the quads would have been sold, and it would become her own nature preserve. Hippie = HIPPOCRIT
 
Its your sister why sometimes we don't like the things they do it all boils down to family and she probably has a post some where on another site about you why she doesn't believe in what you stand for but she will still take care of you cooking and so on because you let her ride and maintain the ATV :beer;
 
Its your sister why sometimes we don't like the things they do it all boils down to family and she probably has a post some where on another site about you why she doesn't believe in what you stand for but she will still take care of you cooking and so on because you let her ride and maintain the ATV :beer;
.........and breath!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D:D:D
 
and takes pretty good care of me when she visits."quote"
:eek: do we really want to know what you mean?:face-icon-small-win

really, you cannot punish the kids. give them the time of their lives and then explain to mom that thanks to her beliefs those times may be over.
 
Most people don't know squat about land issues till it affects them.
I wouldn't let it destroy the family.
 
Let the kids ride! Show them how the grass grew back where they rode on it last time type thing.Teach them common sense and thinking independently when you can.
We have a "shared" cabin in Idaho and recently it has become an absolute nightmare. Good luck.
 
Let the kids ride but try teaching them the truth about land use, motorized vehicle use, etc. They may not understand being so young now but by the time the next election hits maybe they'll be old enough to see the true colors of people and what they're all about.:)
 
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