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I have a hypothetical relationship question for y'all....

It's a small town, and all three of us are in the same industry (automotive/ heavy equipment), so it's only a matter of time before he finds out. Plus, i'm tired of making excuses on why I need to go home and "sleep".

Is this wrong? Am I going to hell for this?








Going to hell......NO............. Unless you bring his sis and Mother into this....That for sure would require Pics:beer;











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So, as far as telling him, i'm probably better to tell him myself, alone, hey?

What do i say?

"dude, I feel like a jerk, but me and your ex really hit it off..." that don't sound right.....

What does a guy say?
 
What I would do in this situation is sleep with as many of her friends as possible, then make small-talk with her friends about what a slut she was when she was dating your friend. This way, lots of gossip will happen, her social life will be ruined, your friend will hate her because he'll think she's a whore, and you've already made off with all her friends' pussies .... and now you have a golden opportunity to play the night in shining armor and make off with hers too!

You can't lose!

:D

LOL...that might be the funniest thing I've read in weeks.
 
I think it'll be alright. We're seeing each other, and so far, she's GREAT! Makes it awkward, though, when we're all together. I figure i'll see how it goes over the next couple weeks, and when we're ready, we'll tell him. After my last relationship, i'm AMAZED that I met someone like her....

Any more input on maybe how to tell him?

Thanks guys!

So your all ready doing it? I'd say you shoulda asked first, so now just lie about the timing and ask him again. Is he a cool guy, then just tell him what happened.

Had two buddies, one was dating a chick, she started fooling around with second bud. First guy was pissed when he found out, even left town for awhile. Then 2nd guy got wise and dropped her and now they are best buds and laugh about it. Truth be told we're not sure why either one was with her, she was beyond crazy beotch. Best we can figure is at one point she took her mouth off and started talking...or she liked the back door action. Not sure which.

Straight out tell him. If he's a good bud he will be ok with it. Might take him a week and a free bottle of Crown, but if he's a true friend he will be glad your happy. Course if you break it off after a month he may change his tune.
 
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edit2 - and screw that bro's before ho's BS... imho, your bro's will be your bro's regardless of who you are dating or married to, if they aren't then they aren't really bro's then...[/QUOTE]

ditto that, I lost a good friend because I picked my wife instead. Sometimes you gotta do what's best for you and if your bud doesn't get it then it was time to drop him.(in my case settling down was a far better choice then the life I would have if I had put bros first). Plus I'm pretty sure no bro is gonna do what a chick will do for ya;)
 
edit2 - and screw that bro's before ho's BS... imho, your bro's will be your bro's regardless of who you are dating or married to, if they aren't then they aren't really bro's then...

ditto that, I lost a good friend because I picked my wife instead. Sometimes you gotta do what's best for you and if your bud doesn't get it then it was time to drop him.(in my case settling down was a far better choice then the life I would have if I had put bros first). Plus I'm pretty sure no bro is gonna do what a chick will do for ya;)[/QUOTE]




Chubby would.....he is GAY









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Chubby would.....he is GAY

Well I figured everyone knew about him and B so they didn't count.
 
I think I might just ASK him if I can ask her out on a date. Then, if he says no, ima do it anyways. Rather than TELLING him....


So if he says no, you are going to do it anyways? Isn't that the same thing as telling him without all the BS?
 
Oh, no, it's worth it. She's GREAT so far. My thinking, is that if he's THAT mad, I don't really want him for a friend.... They're done, and I had nothing to do with it...
 
Oh, no, it's worth it. She's GREAT so far. My thinking, is that if he's THAT mad, I don't really want him for a friend.... They're done, and I had nothing to do with it...

As long as he knows that. If he does and he's still bitter, not worth having as a friend.
 
Who ever thought of bros before hoes was probably gay (jk). The difference here is that it sounds like this girl is no hoe. Give your buddy the info man to man and let him deal with it. If he has an issue, he's no bro.
 
Been there and done this, just lay it out there to him, no bs and he will be cool with it. Ive been on the other guys shoes 5 times now and funny thing was all 5 of them married the girl. The only one I got pissed at was the one that wouldn't man up and tell me. Sorta made me realize what a puzzy I had for a friend.

next time im up in the burg im taking out your girlfriend! LOL

im right there with you man, the past 4 have become engaged within a month after breaking up with me... its complete BS... :mad:


J-roc... reach your hand down your pants, feel your little balls to make sure they are still there, then go use them to tell your bud that your dating his ex. Im guessing from the way things sound that he is still pretty hung up on her... but sometimes the heart has to be really shattered and destroyed before you can grow a new one for someone else... your only going to hurt him more the longer you prolong it. Do it today...
 
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