nytroman needs to lay the law on his group, and if they dont like it, have them buy a truck and trailer themselves. that is just complete greed and bs on the other guys part.
no matter who drives the truck starts full, and ends full in the drivers driveway. that is how it is. if they dont understand that, make it empty when you start and empty when you get home. that is only fair.
we split the fuel, and help with the cleaning of the rig after the trip. trailer and truck maintainence is on the owner of the truck/trailer but, we swap that out for other trades to make things equal for everyone.
we dont keep total score (except gas and lodging) but we always try to out do each other for who pays for what. the driver usually is given, dinner, drinks, food or gifts to make up for the extra time, effort and wear and tear on his rig. its the right thing to do and only fair to give more to the driver.
there are two types of people in the world... givers and takers. it doesnt take long to see what line people are in. if you hang with a bunch of givers, life is usually easy and less drama. if you have takers, you coach them one time, if they complain, time for them to ride with someone else. we have pushed people out of our group for this reason. and i dont lose a nights sleep over it. ski
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