Perk I agree with your post 100% I have had too many close calls the last 2 years with myself, my kids and friends that I have really had to re-think my interest in this sport. I have 2 girls and 2 boys that have been riding since they were old enough to reach the throttle lever. I couldn't handle the times my kids would get hurt on sleds so I sold all but my oldest dauthers only because she is going to be 18 and wants to continue riding after she moves away to college. I found I just wasn't having a good time always worried about one of my kids getting sreiously hurt or killed.
Now as far as a daughter racing, it takes alot of practice, paitience on a parents part, money and the understanding that a racer is going to get hurt, not if they will get hurt but that they will. Sometimes if your lucky, the crashes and burns will cause some bumping and bruising, maybe some broken bones, you just hope nothing worse. If your serious about racing be sure you have the best health care coverage you can afford and also make sure your daughter is covered if she participates in sanctioned motorsports events. Also, don't half *** on safety equipment or sled maintenance. Racing just about anything with a motor takes bucket loads of money so make sure you don't pinch pennies in the wrong areas.