Thank you skidoorulz for posting this, probably one of the best posts I've read in a long time.
This world we live in has become so self-centered that we forget our everyday heroes. The individuals that risk their lives everyday to make the citizens of the U.S. safe, and I feel this is the greatest act of courage and bravery. This extends not only to the people of the Armed Forces, but also the people of Law Enforcement, Fire Department, etc. It takes a certain person to put their lives on the line, for a complete stranger.
You wouldn't hear someone like Brad Pitt putting his life on the line for someone. Unless you believe movies.
I always talked to my Grandpa about the war in Korea, and always respected him for it. But it wasn't until I heard the 3 volleys going off and the flag given to my Grandma, did it really hit me. He wanted to be buried in Fort Snelling, but my Grandma objected because she wanted to be buried next to him when that time comes.
I spoke at his funeral, which for me is probably one of the hardest things I've ever done...Here's what I said..
Grandpa, Dad, Husband, Father-in-Law, Uncle, Brother, Friend -these are all words that tell who Herb was. To know who he was, is something that I'll always remember. Throughout my 21 years of life, he has always been there. Telling me his ways of life, and his history.
I remember all the times as a child, going up to Diamond Lake going fishing off the pontoon and catching perch. He taught me how to put my worm on, and how to tie your hook. All the times we spent digging for worms out in back of the tool shed. The bonfires we'd have out back, and making s'mores, and the fireworks on Fourth of July. The trips to Atwater or Spicer to go get the paper and milk. The days down in Redwood, where we would go to the zoo and all pack in the mini-van to go see the animals, or head to the golf course in the winter time to go sledding. At Christmas time or Thanksgiving, Grandpa always carved the ham or turkey, or when we'd go look at Christmas lights.
As I grew older, Grandpa was always around. Going to my basketball games, tennis meets, always tried to get to the ones they could. If our team lost, he'd always say "Well, that's okay you tried your best, and you did a good job." When I was close to turning to 16, Grandpa taught me how to drive. I don't know how many times we went around Markee, but he was always patient and corrected me. I don't think we practiced parallel parking very well, I didn't do so great with that! Grandpa could always crack me up too, with his goofy impressions and when he'd bring in his "special" suitcase(aka the liquor case). Schooling and studies were always important to my Grandpa, as was hard work. I don't know how many times I was preached upon to do well in school, and to further myself in life. The stories of his hardships, losing his mother early in his childhood, of the war in Korea, there are many.
These are the things I will miss most about my Grandpa. The memories are there to make sure he never dies. He was a one of a kind man, who loved everyone in his family so much. He wouldn't want us to be sad that he is gone, but to live the life that he wanted us to. To grow and open our eyes to new things, and work as hard as you can to reach our goals. Grandpa taught me something even now, its not the length in life you live, but rather the depth in which you live your life. I will miss Grandpa tremendously, but I know that one day I will see him again, and then we can start over where we left off.
Sorry for the long novel of a post, just hit close to home..RIP Ed Freeman and God Bless the Troops
