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Seeking female advice....

Don't worry about the name, i'm glad your giving the Sheep a rest.:eek:

I thought Wyoming the sister's weren't off limits ?:confused::beer;:p
 
I love this site, we can do anything. A couple months ago some dude was looking for advice on his frozen lung, justin(snow jw) is looking for advice on what tractor to buy, a kid is asking what he should be when he grows up, rixter is looking for a way to keep the snow from sticking to his satellite dish and now Nate is looking for a way to make sex with his girlfriend seem a little less like incest. If NASA would have just asked us to how to keep those little heat tile thingys from falling off they probably could have avoided the whole Columbia fiasco.

Duct tape and zip ties. The staple of EVERY sledders tools!
 
I understand... my wife of 4 months has the same name as my sister. At least the spelling is slightly different, Bethany vs Bethanny. But since I have zero romantic thoughts toward my sister, I don't have any issues of mixed identities of whom I'm in bed with!
 
I started dating this girl recently, we were friends for quite awhile before we started dating. I like her, shes damn good looking and has a great personality and outlook on life, the relationship is really good. Problem is she has the same first name as my sister :o

Now I didnt think that would be a problem, but it is. Im actually at the point where im thinking about breaking it off with her. The problem lies in the intimacy department.

Before you go blasting me about being immature, think about it. Your in the bedroom, things are gettin friskay :face-icon-small-hap then blammo :( I wind up saying her name. Total buzz kill. Her name is Tonya, my sisters name is Tanya. I cant say the name Tonya while in bed, freaks me out.

If you have a sibling of the opposite sex......go ahead and say aloud:

"OHHHHHH "insert name"...." in a passionate voice........

see what im saying? Cant do it, I avoid sex with this girl now all together just because of this. How do I go about approaching this with her? I cant call her by her middle name because that was my dead grandmothers name, and thats "Louise" :mad: and I cant find a nickname because thats weird, and I dont want to call her by her last name because im not her coach. If I did that id feel like id have to wear a ballcap and a whistle and wear my socks while doing the nasty.

If I do indeed break it off with this girl for that reason, should I be issued a mulligan to friend zone? Or am I going about it all wrong?

Again...seeking FEMALE advice, I dont give a rats azz what you other bastads think :face-icon-small-hap

I don,t understand the problem. Is your sister ugly or something?
 
This thread is worthless without pics. I think we need to see them both to really be able to help you out.

I think you'll get over it sooner or later Nate. And if not there is always masterbation
 
I started dating this girl recently, we were friends for quite awhile before we started dating. I like her, shes damn good looking and has a great personality and outlook on life, the relationship is really good. Problem is she has the same first name as my sister :o

Now I didnt think that would be a problem, but it is. Im actually at the point where im thinking about breaking it off with her. The problem lies in the intimacy department.

Before you go blasting me about being immature, think about it. Your in the bedroom, things are gettin friskay :face-icon-small-hap then blammo :( I wind up saying her name. Total buzz kill. Her name is Tonya, my sisters name is Tanya. I cant say the name Tonya while in bed, freaks me out.

If you have a sibling of the opposite sex......go ahead and say aloud:

"OHHHHHH "insert name"...." in a passionate voice........

see what im saying? Cant do it, I avoid sex with this girl now all together just because of this. How do I go about approaching this with her? I cant call her by her middle name because that was my dead grandmothers name, and thats "Louise" :mad: and I cant find a nickname because thats weird, and I dont want to call her by her last name because im not her coach. If I did that id feel like id have to wear a ballcap and a whistle and wear my socks while doing the nasty.

If I do indeed break it off with this girl for that reason, should I be issued a mulligan to friend zone? Or am I going about it all wrong?

Again...seeking FEMALE advice, I dont give a rats azz what you other bastads think :face-icon-small-hap

Come up with a cute little nickname to call her in bed. Problem solved :)
 
Got Seinfeld Episode? :D

Good luck with that! Just moan dude! Just moan!!! No calling out names! ;)

(BTW.....so much for the ladies advice...eh!)
 
ok, so you are going to drop what you say is a great gal JUST because of her name??
Seriously, a name?!?
First off, stop talking during sex, it's a waste of time.
Secondlly, you need to examine what you really want in a relationship. If you are looking to drop the girl just becaue of her name, me thinks there is something else going on.

Someone getting a little deep into the relationship and getting cold feet??
I have heard of a lot of reasons to break up with someone (heck I invented some real doosies), but this is a first.

also, if you want just ladies opinions, you REALLY need to pm some of the ladies.
Cause we are going to tell you yours nuts and get over the whole name thing.
 
ok, so you are going to drop what you say is a great gal JUST because of her name??
Seriously, a name?!?
First off, stop talking during sex, it's a waste of time.
Secondlly, you need to examine what you really want in a relationship. If you are looking to drop the girl just becaue of her name, me thinks there is something else going on.

Someone getting a little deep into the relationship and getting cold feet??
I have heard of a lot of reasons to break up with someone (heck I invented some real doosies), but this is a first.

also, if you want just ladies opinions, you REALLY need to pm some of the ladies.
Cause we are going to tell you yours nuts and get over the whole name thing.


I could not have said it better!
 
Like somebody suggested, talk it over with her, and see if there is a nickname you both can agree on.
Should be easy to work out if your relationship looks like one you'd like to continue.

I did something similar with the woman I've been with for the last 15 years. Her name is Diane. My first wife was a Diane. After we were divorced, I dated another "Diane" for a short time. :eek: Seemed strange alright.

Anyhow "Diane #3" is "Annie", by her suggestion. Only time I use her given name is when I call her at work. Its a huge metro hospital, so it's simpler that way.
 
You talk to much

The last thing you should be doing in the bed room is talking. I have been married for 17 years and I hardly every refer to my wife by her name Michelle to long its either honey or shell. Good luck Nate


snowmobiler that's funny ch it I bet that site is hosted somewhere in Wyoming.
 
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