Some of you seem very fussy about people in your group meeting a certain criteria before being allowed to tag along.
Like I said before, most of the time I don't care who comes along. Ive been on rides with little kids and had a blast. Most of my riding partners have been along with my kids and did not complain one bit, because they knew it's a necessary part of life to introduce new people into the sport.
I have also taken many a newb with me and showed em a good ride.
However I am very picky about who I ride with in certain places. If it's going to be pretty technical terrain and steep climbs, my kids and newbs will get told without hesitation "Not on this ride". On those rides I want people that I know will be able to handle themselves if we get into something sketchy.
I would love it if EVERY RIDE was a challenging over the hood powder day that I had to push myself and my sled to get where I wanted to go.
With my kids along that AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN. I will not get them into something that is knowingly going to get them or anyone else hurt.
My son is improving and getting better. (wish he would learn to hammer the throttle a little more often) He is getting to the point that he can go on some better rides. He's been to Mt Jefferson several times. He usually gets a less challenging route than I like but he doesn't get fussed at if he gets stuck. I go help him everytime and just be glad that he's out there with me enjoying this great sport. I push him and try to teach him. Sometimes he gets it right off, others it's a constant learning reminder for him and me. He gets a riding lesson and I get a lesson in patience.
I also agree with Dee that copping an attitude when something goes wrong, being constantly late and canceling will get you invited less.
Acting outright stupid and dangerous, putting others at risk could get you uninvited in the middle of a ride. DO NOT HIGHMARK OVER ME IF I'M STUCK. When I make it off of the hill you may have my shovel wrapped upside your head and around your F'N neck.