Online Dating

[sledskiing]

I've tried them all with little sucess even the sport kind, until a guy i worked with told me i was doing it all wrong. Here is what you do.

You MUST keep a very open mind. If you are looking for the perfect person save your money
Join Match.com
complete the profile 100%
add a lot of random photos
once you complete your profile set up a very basic search like age, body type and location. I guess religion if that is important to you.
Next start blasting away and contacting as many chicks as possible. Don't read into their profiles too much.. If they look normal contact them. Use the Wink function or send them an email with open ended questions.
The best day to do this is Sunday.
When i say contact a lot of chick i mean hundreds within the first few weeks.
Once you get a response back then you can start being a little picky but don't get carried away.
Email back and forth only a few times then get the date. Don't drag it out.
When you are ready to schedule a date. Make it something non formal. Like coffee, drink after work or lunch.
Sign up for 3 months.
Start contacting right away. Don't do you profile and then wait

I was off the market in less than 2 months. Been with this girl for over a year and she just moved in with me.

2 friends who recently got divorced tried it also with great success.

Again keep an open mind and don't be picky when contacting chicks. It will all work out in the end.

 

[Deadsled]

I just started eharmony a month ago. It seemed like the best place to meet someone who wasn't into sporting or serial dating. It's a huge pain in the azz so their investing their time and so should you.

Living up here in the boonies has one big disadvatage and that's that there are not a lot of women to date.

I travel frequently so the distance thing is not that big of a deal for me. Plus, I can work from anywhere I want to.

One thing I have learned is that looks are not everything. I married a hottie and it cost me 50k to lose her sorry azz. There are some really cool women out there that are sweet and won't screw you over. At least I'm hoping for that, just have not met the right one.

 

[R J]

I don't need Bullsh!t right now. In your experience, if you were to join an online dating service that you were going to pay for, which one would you join?

I did e-harmony, and while it took a bit of time it worked out rather well. Been seeing someone for 6 months now and if it wasn't for that site their is no way on earth we would have hooked up. In a lot of ways it's rather interesting how much in common you have and how quick you get through the akward first meeting/date things when you use on of those sites.

 

[ruffryder]

Living up here in the boonies has one big disadvatage and that's that there are not a lot of women to date.

Boonies, Your in the biggest city in the UP man... Glad it worked out for you.