HELP.....Last Minute date...TOMARROW NIGHT!!!!

[Wired1]

This is the funniest thread I've read in a long time. Men trying to analyze what women want. HA. You guys don't have a clue.

Nate, I sent you a PM.

Speaking only for myself and my friends like me (a bit older, educated, professional gals who like to party and aren't too bad on the eyes), if a guy acts disinterested....see ya.

I want a guy that's hard working, confident, self-assured but not arrogant. Considerate but not drooling on me. Pays attention to me and does the little things, and appreciates it when I do them as well.

You can't make anyone like you. If you try, that's not who you are.

As for a fun first date, don't try too hard. It's about spending time together getting to know each other. I always recommend bowling. Most people enjoy it, specially if they're the type who can laugh at themself. It's a fine, lighthearted environment. You can talk, have fun, and just get to know one another. It also shows you a few things: Is she too competitive (gets mad if she does bad); is she a poor sport or pouty; is she willing to try new things (if she's never bowled, or take her to the arcade afterward); and can she have fun doing pretty much anything. Good insight into her character.

Good luck.

 

[jimmy buffet]

I honestly think that by seeing a pic, it would be easy to provide a complete itenerary of an evening to remember for both parties involved.....

so what would be on the itenerary if its a fat chick and he's a pimpled up dude, and if he's a normal guy and she's a hot chick, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THE LOOKS HAVE TO DO WITH WHAT KIND OF A (date) THEY DO FOR THAT EVENING!!

Just think its funny how grown men like yourself (40year old) wants to see his girlfriend and then will make a decision. If shes ugly everyone will rip him, shes hot they want to see more!

 

[jimmy buffet]

Relax a little there DAD!.......

Sounds to me like they are both 21, and nobody was talking **** but you!]

I am a dad to a 1 year old boy, so what

please tell me what **** i was talking

Im just tring to help out a kid

 

[Blk88GT]

Bowling? Arcades? These are kids we're talking about, not senior citizens.

I wouldn't even bother if her ex is still in the picture. Don't think you can "win her over", you're only getting sloppy seconds anyways.

I always wanted to use this line if I was banging some other dude's ex:

Him: So, how does my dick taste?
You: Small.


Remember it, you'll likely need it if you decide to "win her over". She's banging him, but won't tell you.

Enjoy your date. A bottle of Jager and a box of rubbers (2 per) would at least make it interesting.

 

[Wired1]

Bowling? Arcades? These are kids we're talking about, not senior citizens.

I've had dates like this from my early twenties until now even. You'd be amazed at how many dates I see at the bowling alley.

As for the arcade, my hubby won my heart when he kicked my butt at 10 consecutive games of air hockey. I pulled out all the stops too, which usually work (batting the eyes, flaunting the girls, etc).

 

[dragon12]

This is the funniest thread I've read in a long time. Men trying to analyze what women want. HA. You guys don't have a clue.

Nate, I sent you a PM.

Speaking only for myself and my friends like me (a bit older, educated, professional gals who like to party and aren't too bad on the eyes), if a guy acts disinterested....see ya.

I want a guy that's hard working, confident, self-assured but not arrogant. Considerate but not drooling on me. Pays attention to me and does the little things, and appreciates it when I do them as well.

You can't make anyone like you. If you try, that's not who you are.

As for a fun first date, don't try too hard. It's about spending time together getting to know each other. I always recommend bowling. Most people enjoy it, specially if they're the type who can laugh at themself. It's a fine, lighthearted environment. You can talk, have fun, and just get to know one another. It also shows you a few things: Is she too competitive (gets mad if she does bad); is she a poor sport or pouty; is she willing to try new things (if she's never bowled, or take her to the arcade afterward); and can she have fun doing pretty much anything. Good insight into her character.

Good luck.

So help us out here Wired1, what is it that this twenty something girl wants? She has already stated she wanted to be friends. She still has the ex-boyfriend around. Is she only keeping Snowmobile Kid around because she wants the attention? Does she want him for leverage against her ex? Think back to when you were their age. Did you have guy friends that were ONLY friends? Did you ever consider having a relationship with those guys? Probably not. What we are saying is if she is still "talking" to her ex, she doesn't really want to be in a relationship with Snowmobile Kid (which is what he would like). The next step is "I just got out of a bad relationship and I am not ready for another one."

Poor dude is going to have a lot running through his head on his date with her.

 

[HawkShot99]

DUDE, YOU AND KHADDON NEED A VISIT FROM CHRIS HANSON!!!!!

HE'S A KID SO I'LL BET SHE IS TOO. AND HE'S FROM A SMALL TOWN HE SAID SO YOU CAN'T BE TO PICKEY. WHY DON'T YOU TOO POST YOUR WIFE, GIRLFRIENDS, OR DAUGHTERS AND LET OTHERS RIP YOU APART, UNLESS THEY ARE HOT. PUT UP OR SHUT UP BOYS!!!!!

There is my pic. I posted it now I want pics of her!!

 

[Wired1]

So help us out here Wired1

Not enough information.

1. How long did she and the ex date?
2. How long ago did they break up?
3. Does she talk to you about him, or bring him up often?
4. How and why did they break up?
etc, etc, etc.

I've had many male friends that were friends only. I've also stayed friends with ex boyfriends many times. Usually it was a mutual "this just isn't it" thing, so there were no hard feelings nor wanting the other back.

Unfortunately, not having a better feel I can't advise other than have fun, be yourself and enjoy the night. Don't be planning your future because you've set one date. Slow down cowboy. And good luck.

I'm outta here until Monday.

 

[khaddon2110]

I am a dad to a 1 year old boy, so what

please tell me what **** i was talking

Im just tring to help out a kid

I think you thought I was saying ****. but I was saying ****, you brought up **** and I too am just trying to help this kid out.

I really don't care what she looks like but your kidding yourself if you can't learn a lot about someone from first appearance.

If she looks and dresses slutty, guaranteed the itinerary and expectations will be different from a girl that is modest and has morals. Usually, first impressions are pretty acurate.

By the way... thanks for reminding me I turned 40 last week!

 

[xrated]

This is the funniest thread I've read in a long time. Men trying to analyze what women want. HA. You guys don't have a clue.

Nate, I sent you a PM.

Speaking only for myself and my friends like me (a bit older, educated, professional gals who like to party and aren't too bad on the eyes), if a guy acts disinterested....see ya.

I want a guy that's hard working, confident, self-assured but not arrogant. Considerate but not drooling on me. Pays attention to me and does the little things, and appreciates it when I do them as well.

You can't make anyone like you. If you try, that's not who you are.

As for a fun first date, don't try too hard. It's about spending time together getting to know each other. I always recommend bowling. Most people enjoy it, specially if they're the type who can laugh at themself. It's a fine, lighthearted environment. You can talk, have fun, and just get to know one another. It also shows you a few things: Is she too competitive (gets mad if she does bad); is she a poor sport or pouty; is she willing to try new things (if she's never bowled, or take her to the arcade afterward); and can she have fun doing pretty much anything. Good insight into her character.

Good luck.

There is the problemn, interested, but not to much, etc etc.

But dude, let me put the positive spin on bolwing for you. In fact I took my wife bowling for our first date, and here is why. you go a throw the ball down the lane, now it's her turn...keep in mind you don't care how you bowl, you want her to have fun(not lose) and the main reason you dont' care how you do is this...

When it's her turn you are back sitting down, and she is walking up to the line to bowl, SHAKING HER ACE the entire time. Even if she isn't meaning to, her *** will be wiggling and she'll be bending over to throw the ball and pick it up. So who the hell yeah, wired is right, bowling is where it's at!!

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

wow lots of good advice from everyeon.....thanks. let me give you some more info. Im 19, out of school and shes a 18, a senior and is from seattle, I live in cle elum (cental Wa.) but she has a cabin over here. the deal is she was really into me and I wasnt too sure about her, then we had dinner and she made a move...... so I know shes into me, BUT.....then her ex called her and said he wanted to work things out. they were only together for like 6 months and broke up last august. I think im wasting my time with this one. She couldnt go riding today or hang out last nite, she wants to hang out tonight but if we dont then Im just gonna tell her to call me when she wants to get to know and maybe have a relationship. I think that will be the best idea.

as far as a pic goes I will post one just because. ya it doesnt matter what she looks like but for those who want to see who were talking about here.....

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=6123604&albumID=1696334&imageID=32888818

 

[Gromit]

Sounds like she doesn't have anything better to do tonight so she can tell her friends she didn't have to sit home on a Saturday night. If you are of the same opinion then go for it. Otherwise, move on.

 

[sledchick]

haha..are you guys serious?? You guys have no clue on how women work...but then of course some women are really fricken complicated. To me, she just seems really immature and confused on what she really wants. But then again when I was 18, I was confused on what I wanted also..I was going off to college and all the other stresses in my life. I agree with wired, I've gone bowling more than once on dates...I'm very competitive so it makes it fun. Otherwise, my boyfriend of almost 2 years took me out to DQ for ice cream our first date. We went up to the ski-hill that overlooks our town and sat and talked. Kinda corny..haha, but it was great getting to know him. Otherwise I think our second date was going on the quad, and him showing off his "mad skills".
I guess I'm a pretty simple girl, and don't need on the glitz and glam, nor do I want a guy that isn't a gentlemen. I fell in love with my boyfriend because he works hard, gives 110% in everything he does, is confident, and the small things are as important to him, and they are to me. Now don't get me wrong on the drinking thing, I've been hammered with him before--but not on the first date type of thing. Impress her, and have fun!

 

[hesse]

wow lots of good advice from everyeon.....thanks. let me give you some more info. Im 19, out of school and shes a 18, a senior and is from seattle, I live in cle elum (cental Wa.) but she has a cabin over here. the deal is she was really into me and I wasnt too sure about her, then we had dinner and she made a move...... so I know shes into me, BUT.....then her ex called her and said he wanted to work things out. they were only together for like 6 months and broke up last august. I think im wasting my time with this one. She couldnt go riding today or hang out last nite, she wants to hang out tonight but if we dont then Im just gonna tell her to call me when she wants to get to know and maybe have a relationship. I think that will be the best idea.

as far as a pic goes I will post one just because. ya it doesnt matter what she looks like but for those who want to see who were talking about here.....

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=6123604&albumID=1696334&imageID=32888818

your dating ironman? its a dude

 

[snowmobiler]

if shes not rich,move on

 

[buck50]

if shes not rich,move on

amen brotha!!!!! find a rich one now and set yourself up for life!!!!! hopefully!!

 

[R J]

Snowmobile Kid.

All that comes to mind is Brooks and Dunn's song Hillbilly Deluxe with this thread.

As for the her other boyfriend, I would move on to something else. Sure it might be worth your time but it's a slippery slope that no matter what you do it's her that is going to make the calls when it comes to whos going to be with who. She obviously is a bit confused and isn't ready to move on.