HELP.....Last Minute date...TOMARROW NIGHT!!!!

[Snowmobile Kid]

Long story short, I met this girl through another girl that I hooked up with a while back and she is is amazing. We knew of each other and met one or twice but not formally, last week I had a few drinks and her friend talked me into calling her and from that day it hit things off and she was really into me couoldnt go like 5 minutes without talking to me. we had dinner saturday night and it was great, BUT her ex boyfriend has been talking to her and they are hanging out and she still wants to be freinds but im looking to win her over..........so I told her I had a fun night planned for us tomarrow which was stupid on my part but It was all I could think of. She likes jager so I was gonna get a fifth and go wheeling in my truck, its all I can think of i got a blank in my head..........but theres hella snow so that might be pointless. I need some ideas her, girls what would be something that you would love to do in a SMALL town on a friday night. I know shes into me just torn between two guys so this needs to be good.

 

[skibreeze]

She likes jager so I was gonna get a fifth and go wheeling in my truck

This has got to be one of the stupidest things you could come up with.

Maybe a movie, dinner, bowling, or just wheeling w/o the open container.

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

haha......ya I wasnt sure about the jager, but she likes to party.

 

[Snowmobile Kid]

I dont want it to be like a normal date, it needs to be more like a friendly thing and then turn out to be really cool. I wanted to go build a fire somewhere and listen to the radio and talk over some smores?

 

[oonighttrain]

I dont want it to be like a normal date, it needs to be more like a friendly thing and then turn out to be really cool. I wanted to go build a fire somewhere and listen to the radio and talk over some smores?

she would probably like that.. save the liquor for some other time.. show her that you are a nice guy first..

of sourse, everytime i have tried to show a woman that i was a nice guy it did nothing bite bite me in the azz.. seems like women like guys that are azzholes.. maybe you should bring the jager, get her all hammered up and see what happens..

just kidding.. just be yourself.. if she doesnt like it, shes not the one for you..

 

[Dogmeat]

Best advice you will ever hear in your life:

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS.

If you are her "friend", you are now her emotional tampon.

You will never get into her pants. You will never be in a relationship with her.

If a girl you like, and you know damned well you like her -as in want to be in a relationship like her - you are screwing yourself over by hoping she will change her mind one day. She won't. She decided the first 15 minutes she knew you if you would either a) have sex with her or b) be in a relationship with her.

If all you wanna do is pork her ... tell her that. If you wanna be in a relationship and she gives you the "just friends" garbage, be like "Pffffffffffft cya" and go find another.

Trust me. NEVER play the "friends" game with a girl. It doesn't work.

 

[oonighttrain]

after further review of your post.. her tryingto decide between th eother dude and you..

you need to act like you could care less what she does.. trust me, the less effort you put in, the better off you will be!!! that sounds stupid but, its true...

its the thrill of the chase.. make her chase you.. DO NOT CHASE HER!!!

 

[oonighttrain]

Best advice you will ever hear in your life:

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS.

If you are her "friend", you are now her emotional tampon.

You will never get into her pants. You will never be in a relationship with her.

If a girl you like, and you know damned well you like her -as in want to be in a relationship like her - you are screwing yourself over by hoping she will change her mind one day. She won't. She decided the first 15 minutes she knew you if you would either a) have sex with her or b) be in a relationship with her.

If all you wanna do is pork her ... tell her that. If you wanna be in a relationship and she gives you the "just friends" garbage, be like "Pffffffffffft cya" and go find another.

Trust me. NEVER play the "friends" game with a girl. It doesn't work.

i have never known a woman that had a male friend that didnt want to bang her.. so, to a woman, its like a d!ck in a glass case.. break in an emergency.. if a woman tells you hes just a friend, i call bull****, he wants to hit it and is just waiting around till the time is right..

 

[dragon12]

Now is the time to play "he who cares the least." Do you really want to put up with the drama of the ex? She told you she wanted to be friends and she is still talking with her ex. What she is saying is, I am interested in you so I can get over my ex but I am not willing to jump right in with you. If she wants to be with you, she will come around. Dogmeat is right, if she is playing this game you are going to waste your time and possibly get played. Try it out tomorrow but if she brings up the other dude its time to move on. Hopefully it works out different and maybe you get what you are looking for.

 

[Kong]

Listen to these guys. But leave the door open. Just tell her you think she's special. Then tell her when she is free to pursue a real relationship, give you a call. No anger, no hassle. Just hey when you're free, let me know.

Do not chase, just kinda be around. Her friend will keep you clued if she is really interested.

 

[dragon12]

You guys listen to Lex and Terry also? Some funny ch?t and lots of good advice.

 

[cmantle1]

Im gonna have to say you can go two routes in this situation. But one thing is for sure, dogmeat is right, if she thinks your that guy she can talk to about her problems, your royally ****ed my friend....

If you just want plain old *** (dont blame you) i would bring alcohol. Not driving with it, but do something with it. Fridays forecast? Drunk with signs of horniness...always.

If you actually want a serious relationship with her do something fun, like get some crazy food, or take her for a ride on your sled. She sounds a little on the wild side, so somehting out of the ordinary is a safe bet. My girly friend LOVES sled rides, along with rides on the bike....

To be honest ive had best luck with dates that go totally wrong, i know that sounds cliche, but its true....

And the advice about making it seem like you dont care is what i would do, as long as you give hints your interested, dont be a totall *******, lol.
Just be a g and throw down

 

[hilinerider]

i have never known a woman that had a male friend that didnt want to bang her.. so, to a woman, its like a d!ck in a glass case.. break in an emergency.. if a woman tells you hes just a friend, i call bull****, he wants to hit it and is just waiting around till the time is right..

x2 on that ^^^
you trying to get her attention is making her think that everyone is supposed to be at her beck and call, if this continues and you win then you are still supposed to be at her beck and call for EVER, bad deal !!!

 

[Rubberdown!]

Hey ask me for advice...........No don't......I suck at relationships.......

 

[oonighttrain]

i dont know how old you are but, when i was in high school, i was fawkin nuts in love with this girl (she knew it).. she played the i wanna be friends deal, said she didnt want to mess up our friendship.. etc..etc..

point is, i still wish like he!! i coulda hit it but, i screwed up by showing her how i really felt.. KEEP IT UNDER YOUR HAT FOR AWHILE.. PLAY IT COOL!!

 

[Dogmeat]

seriously, the best thing here is to hit it and quit it ...

or just quit it if she's not about you hittin it.

Don't waste your time .... seriously. You're only young once, don't bother screwing around wasting time on chicks that are retarded.

heh

 

[Rubberdown!]

AMEN Dogmeat........Where were you 2 months ago as I just wasted those on a ...............BLEEP BLEEEPPPPPP

 

[oonighttrain]

just got a p.m. from someone, heres what it said:

OH you are so correct on the male friend thing.....I just broke it off with a chick that I found out her BEST friend was a male friend, and "HE UNDERSTANDS ME SO WELL" blah fricken blaH!


point is, the friend is hangin out till he gets his chance to play the shoulder to cry on and then he will be knee deep in it..

on the other hand, the friend (who wants desperately to hit it, and feels strongly for the girl) gets to sit around and watch all the azzholes get a peice of the girl hes in love with..

DONT BE THE FRIEND NO MATTER WHAT!!!

 

[Rubberdown!]

BUT, should SHE be saying stuff like that just to get EVEN...Really proves what kind of quality piece of #$# she is.....doesn't it? OH WELL!!!!!!!!!!! NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or not!

 

[racingpit]

You need to find out what she likes to do. Try to keep it away from drinking. Ask her if she would like to go to dinner and a movie (as mentioned previously).