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pullhardr
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Take her to a gun show. Have her try them out. It took me 2 days walking around, till I found one that fit my grip and wasn't too heavy.
I left with a FN Hertsel Five-7 Tatical.
What I love about its about 20% lighter then a 9mm and can take up to up to 20 rounds. More info on Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FN_Five-seven
Good Luck with the search.
Great advice, most women aren't informed or comfortable with firearms.