By all means don't refrain. I am just voice my opinion and the watching the people that we ride with. I have my ski stance set at 37" and no sway bar and absolutely love it. I like to read people comments as much as the next person and maybe their comment will help with my wife. We did try narrow and never made it past the "it's to tipsy" stage. I agree if they over come that mental hurdle they would have a much easier time. But to this point I haven't rode with anyone that has.