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PATIENCE grasshoppa!!! And That's where you START...
Keep a GOOD ATTITUDE... If she sees you frustrated, well, ,,how do you feel when people around you are frustrated.... You need to show her that, no matter how terrible she is, YOU ARE HAPPY SHE IS TRYING!
GOOD GEAR, yep,,,... I don't know any girls who enjoy being cold... Mine's from Wisconsin, so I got an easy one..
SIMPLE TERRAIN + SIMPLE INSTRUCTION. Don't fill her head with even any moderate techniques just yet, let's just see how she does, evaluate her base skills so to say..
PRAISE.... If she does good, or even surprises you, LET HER KNOW... Everyone likes to hear that..
Let her know, there are NO DUMB QUESTIONS... And don't over complicate things, remember, we're building here...
She's a beginner, you need to make it FUN FIRST, then move on to bigger a better things. You will notice her confidence rise, then it's on to the next step..
One thing I will note... My wife said she has a hard time watching me, if we're just riding, and learning. She says it just looks too easy and natural. She learns best observing and riding with others closer to her own skill set. Watching what they do on the sled and trying to refine her own techniques using what I've taught her.
One other note, ,,,which goes against all my years of training knowledge and advice.....and, I DO NOT RECOMMEND!!!!
This is SUPER ADVANCED TRAINING, DO NOT ATTEMPT
She rides best when she's pissed at me.....
So, remember, it needs to be FUN FIRST!