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CoyoteGirl
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2. I am not capable of wrenching without bleeding/busting a knuckle
at some point.
Did you get all healed up???
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2. I am not capable of wrenching without bleeding/busting a knuckle
at some point.
I was inspired to do a little work on my sled today.
With my wife's younger sisters, the past couple years have been a learning experience for me. I'd like to say I've fully learned, but alas, I can be dense sometimes (most of the time).
It takes more patience to show someone how to do something, and wait for them to do it at their speed, (most of the time speed comes with experience/practice), and carefully watching over their shoulder to make sure to GUIDE them, not direct them. I think this applies to teaching a kid how to use a hammer, to teaching your spouse how to change a sled belt, to aluminum welding. (my wifes first bead was great!) I've noticed that her attitude and interest level is usually (but not always) affected by my demeanor, and how warm I can make the garage.
So, to the fellas that are reading this thread, as much as we might like the idea of being chivalrous and take care of our gal(s), keep in mind we have to have the right attitude to encourage our gals to learn at least the basics, and keep our ego's in check.
As far as the gloves go: I wear them as often as I can. If I find I want more dexterity, grab a smaller size. XLs go on easiest, larges are kinda snug. I use larges almost all the time, but if I'm doing real fine work, I'll squeeze into mediums. Yes, my hands start to hurt after a bit, but take them off, and take a short break. If speed is really critical, then yes, bare skin is faster (for me) but those darn gloves make clean-up much nicer, and have saved me lots of cuts over the years.
With my wife's younger sisters, the past couple years have been a learning experience for me. I'd like to say I've fully learned, but alas, I can be dense sometimes (most of the time).
It takes more patience to show someone how to do something, and wait for them to do it at their speed, (most of the time speed comes with experience/practice), and carefully watching over their shoulder to make sure to GUIDE them, not direct them. I think this applies to teaching a kid how to use a hammer, to teaching your spouse how to change a sled belt, to aluminum welding. (my wifes first bead was great!) I've noticed that her attitude and interest level is usually (but not always) affected by my demeanor, and how warm I can make the garage.
So, to the fellas that are reading this thread, as much as we might like the idea of being chivalrous and take care of our gal(s), keep in mind we have to have the right attitude to encourage our gals to learn at least the basics, and keep our ego's in check.
To the gals: Please keep in mind that we are men, and sometimes we don't communicate the same way you do. Sometimes, we desperately want you to show interest, but maybe we don't know how to express that. When you see your guy (or whoever is trying to show/teach you) do something quickly and easily, keep in mind, there was a time they struggled with it, so if you are having a hard time, don't beat yourself up. We all started somewhere. I can share with you that my wife gets frustrated with herself if she can't do something right away that I have been doing for a while. It just takes practice, and I'd like to second AKSnowrider's wisdom that it makes it much easier if you UNDERSTAND what that mechanical part actually does, and why it's important.
To the guys: Be PATIENT, BE KIND, remember what it was like the first time you did it, and how nice it was if you had someone who was patient walking you through it. If we start our projects very early, we can afford to progress slowly, and not be 'under the gun' time-wise.
Hopefully this made some sense,
PE
Just start small, take your time, take notes every step of the way, and even take pics of each step (technology really is your friend).