Seriously...If you catch your 13 year old looking at p0rn?

[Himark]

So I go to log onto SW last night and I wanted to look at last thing in history so I checked history. MUCH to my surprise I see about 30 minutes of visiting a couple free p0rn sites. So I have not talked to my son about this yet because how can you chew him out for something we ALL did when we were 13-14 years old??? I mean we didnt have the internet but had plenty of print mags hidden around.

I dont want to condem what he did but at same time dont want to condone it either..

Edit, I guess I should be happy he wasnt looking at gay p0rn like snowmobilesrme does.

 

[jzanc532]

Anything good??? lol

 

[PJ-Hunter]

You can't. There is nothing wrong with it, IMO. Just let him know that real world women don't like it that way and he should respect women more than that. It's part of being a teenager, you did it, he does it and shouldn't be in trouble for it. Now if you walk in and catch him actually doing a girl like that, then get pissed.

 

[Chubbydog]

You got to explain to him that girls don't really like facials. Even though every movie ends that way. But yea, thank God it wasn't gay p0rn. Then you'd have a lot bigger problem on your hands.

 

[SledsWest]

Ask him what other sites he's been too....maybe he has a few gooders you haven't been too yet.

I guess its a great opportunity to sit down and have a little father-to-son chat about the ladies and what real life is all about (not whats in those videos). Its a normal thing, even healthy that he is realizing the unstoppable drive to the lady-folk. He'll have it the rest of his life, we all do. Its the way we're wired but its gotta be bridled and controlled.... and thats the true measure of a man. He has to learn that for himself, nobody else can do it for him. You have the responsibilty, as a father, to be the reflectors on his path to becoming a good man and to set the boundaries and guide his direction and show him where the limits are. He's gonna test the limits and try to go off the path, just like we all did. Stand strong, teach him the limits and expectations and give him an example to look to. You have to be the person you expect him to be. Don't shame him, keep an open dialogue with him so that he feels comfortable talking to you about that kind of stuff when he has questions. Making him feel dirty and shamed is just going to make looking at it that much more exhilerating and slam the door on him ever talking to you about these things and getting a mature point of view.....leaving him to get his "not so mature or correct" info from the internet and his friends.

 

[coyoteman]

You need to explain to him that looking at **** on the net will give your computer viruses and having sex before he's older will give him viruses.

 

[winter brew]

Don't say anything abou the po-rn.....just give him a quick computer lesson on clearing history and he will know.

 

[POLZIN]

Give him a pat on the back for me ! Atta BOY!

 

[PJ-Hunter]

SledsWest nailed it. No pun intended

 

[Himark]

SledsWest nailed it. No pun intended

My thoughts exactly. Good post sledswest!

 

[winter brew]

This should help.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnr6ciV1q-g

 

[newmy1]

just remind him that big brother is watching

 

[HawkShot99]

First thing you should do is make sure he wasnt rubbing one out while using your computer. That is just nasty to use the same dirty keys afterwards. Then just make sure you have good anti-virus protection.

I dont think I could ever really scold a kid for it, knowing what I may, or may not have done in my past.

 

[rockdog2112]

First thing you should do is make sure he wasnt rubbing one out while using your computer. That is just nasty to use the same dirty keys afterwards. Then just make sure you have good anti-virus protection.

I dont think I could ever really scold a kid for it, knowing what I may, or may not have done in my past.

Or maybe last night while my wife was at the store. I meant somebody elses wife and not me. I would never do that.

 

[m8magicandmystery]

better the boy looking then the daughter showing...

 

[togwotee9]

 

[Mafesto]

Just tell him that whenever he's stirring up a batch, his dead relatives are watching him.

 

[snowmobilesrme]

i wouldnt worry until he starts listening to stuff this dirty..

<EMBED height=344 type=application/x-shockwave-flash width=425 src=http://www.youtube.com/v/DRdMHbzjrlU&hl=en&fs=1& allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always"></EMBED>

and if he starts to watch this kind of stuff....

REMOVED CONTENT

call the police..

 

[bobback]

Sure it wasn't your wife looking at it!!!

 

[stum1967]

We didn,t have problems like internet **** when I was young. We had to find it on Beta tape.