That's a rare commodity these days, there is so much noise that keeping focused on the signal is difficult.
Men have been better at being focused on the signal, it's a survival thing of hunt or be hunted.
That's becoming rare in the younger generations.
For women it was a motherly thing, they protect what's in thier bubble.
Want to drive a woman bat **** crazy, create noise from multiple sources without being obnoxious and try to have a conversion.
I'll put my money on her, you already aggravated her because she's trying to block out the noise.